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writes:Ive fancied a guy at work for a while but didn't think he liked me until the xmas party were we got chatting and later spent the night together in his hotel room it was amazing and he said the sweetest things to me. We later found out that his friend fancied me and was really upset with him for sleeping with me. I see my crush at work all the time he looks my way and smiles at me but nothing else has happened I've sent him a few texts and he replys but with no emotion. Should i forget about him or try text him or email him if so what do I say. Help !
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reader, cd206 +, writes (18 January 2007):
 It sounds like he was interested in you but after he found out how his friend felt he decided to stand aside and give his friend the chance. There's only one option. Speak to his friend and tell him you really like the guy you slept with. Tell him you're sorry if it hurt you because that was not your intention but you'd like the opportunity to get to know party guy better. Hopefully he'll stand aside and/or tell you if your guy is really interested. Just remember to be sensitive with him- unrequited love is HARD!
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Sweety, it's a guy thing!
Guys don't persue anyone there friends are into!
But to give you peace of mind email him and be direct, ask him if what happened was a one night thing or if he actually does have feelings for you!
If he doesn't answer take it as a one night thing and move on, but if he asnwer in an indirect way persue him, the chase is fun! But becareful don't put your feelings out there too much!
And if it is his friend thats stopping you two from being together, then speak to his friend and indirectly tell him you not interested and that he needs to move on!
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