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female
age
26-29,
*andyCurves
writes:Ive liked this guy for a while and , I've wanted to talk to him but I'm extremely shy( the type of shy that can't be overcome by repeating mantras, Ive been there done that. And there's no difference at all)Well I decided to take baby steps -so I poked him on facebook to see if he was interested. Well he poked back and we had a little war going on ,but that still didnt ease things in reality. I tried talking to him but I messed up and came out with " do you know what time it is?". By then I knew he liked me for sure because of the way he reacted around me at school.One night he poked me on facebook whilst I was online but I didnt respond because I wasnt sure about how I felt that night and didt want to come accross desperate or too available from my previous failure. So I left it .The next time I was online I poked him back but then he posted at his status " cant be asked with girls anymore". Hasn't poked me back since. Why did he give up on me? Surely he cant just give up like that? I know im shy and people get impatient with me.It hasn't really knocked my self esteem because I know he might still have feelings for me but I'm frustrated with myself. Because I always let people down as well as myself.( Im not talking about just him, my life in general).But someone please tell me what I can do because Ive hit brick wall.Thanks!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 June 2010):
He's as confused as you are. He didn't' give up, because he never made a start. And neither did you. You've got to be clear if you want a man's attention. Not too clear, but you need to message him and just say hello or something. Men like the chase to an extent, but he thought he wasn't getting anywhere. If you want him, then just message him and say hello.
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