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writes:My boyfriend and I split up (He left me) after he had an affair w/his x-wife, it lasted approx 2months when realized a big mistake. We reconciled and now engaged for about 1 yr. I really love him and we are building a life together. They have grown children together with whom I get along with. My question is...Is it ok for her to hang out at his place of business, making herself comfortable behind the desk visiting the children? He seems to think its ok as long as he is not there. But I feel disrespected and don't want her there. I don't see her as the mother of his children anymore, just the woman he had the affair with. Is this acceptable?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 June 2010):
The fact is you are the second wife. You always were, and you always will be. He has no right to have her around his place of work, but she has every right to visit her children. She will always be the mother of his children, and that is something you have to accept. And if he had an affair with her, I think it tells you all you need to know. You will always be the second wife and the woman he cheated on. She will always be the mother of his children. That's as far as this goes. Whether you stay with him is up to you.
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