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writes:Well, i have sort of been talking to this guy for about a year and a half now. we met online on myspace. we have "chatted" ever since. I have met him in person about 7 times. He lives about an hour away from me. I have liked him since the very first time i talked to him and even more the first time i met him in person. however , we couldnt realy see each other a lot because of the distance and our busy lives. we have dated other people in the process of all this but for some reason kept ending up talking to one another again. (Him always initiating the conversations.) well, as things got more serious with me spending time with him and missing him and stuff, i started to get upset that i couldnt see him as much as i like (so i told him i thought it was best to let him do his own thing and me do mine) and also i was afraid he would break my heart, he didnt even respond to me saything that and i havent heard from him since. i miss him soooo much. at one point i even thought i loved him. i dont know what to do. should i just leave it alone and assume that no answer or response IS my answer?
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reader, Ears4tears  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 Although i dont have any resevations about people meeting on line i do think sometimes people see it as a measure of security. I think you miss the on line chats because it was safe while hes at a distant he cant hurt you and i think in your head after a while you believed that when you meet youd still have that security, but unfotunatly it never lasts does it??? I think its safe to say that no reply is your reply, he proberably feels the same as you and wants to avoid the uset for the both of you.
Keep your chin up hun, true love is always round the corner xxxxx
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reader, amylouise +, writes (15 September 2007):
 first of all decide do you want him or not. if you feel it is best to move on then do so, you will eventuallyget over him dont worry. But if you do u still want him maybe try and chat to him online again and let him no how you feel. explain to him excatly how you feel about him.
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