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writes:hiya my name is ben im 19 and about two months ago i split up with my first girlfriend i was only with her about 2 weeks but i liked her a lot. im not much of a talkative person and i never really opend up to her as much as would have liked to. we still talk and i have met up with her a few times whilst with other friends of hers. i still like her a lot and i can stop thinking of her but she is seeing her ex this guy who i hate. she rings me up to talk sometimes about random s**t and i like it when she duz i jus want her back so much i tell her how i feel over instant messeging(msn) all the time (wich i think she finds a bit annoying tbh) but i dnt think i could talk to her like that in person. when im in person i can neva think if what to say to her and im usualy quiet but she knows how i feel. any tips and advice would be much apriciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): I'm 18 and the first boy I ever went out with did the same to me. I didn't realise it then but the reason I loved him so much was just because he was my first boyfriend. It felt like real love, even when people told me it wasnt it still did. Only two years after I went out with him was I finally over him completely. I know you wont believe that you only like her so much because of that reason but you have to at least accept it as a possibility, talk to her less and try to move on.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 September 2009):
She was your first love, even if it was just for a few weeks. Now she's using you as he shoulder when it goes wrong. She's not coming back Im afraid, so you've got to stop messaging her telling her that you want her back and go out and try to meet other girls. There's a saying about first loves: Get in, get out and move on, because there's a better one around the corner. She doens't know waht she wants anyway because she's back with her ex and still talking to you. She's using you and dragging you along. Move on. hope that helps.
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