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22-25,
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writes:I really like this guy and I think he likes me to. I catch him staring at me and he flirted with me a lot at the school dance. But sometimes he can be mean to me which my friends say it's because he likes me. And sometimes he flirts soooo much with one of my friends. He can be so nice and lovely other times he's not so nice, also he is my best friends brother. And they are in the same class and I don't want him to find out.
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reader, ShakeWutUrMamaGaveYou +, writes (6 September 2014):
Uh''' when you say "he's mean" what does he do? I agree with the other poster. If he picks on you it could mean he likes you, and is trying to make you jealous by flirting with your friend to see your reaction.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (2 January 2014):
 What do you mean, he's mean to you? What does he say or do??
You're young, so if "he's mean" means he's picking on you, your friends might be right. However if "he's mean" means he puts you down or calls you names, then your friends are wrong. The proof is whether or not he can take what he dishes out.
If he's picking on you, be mean back! If he's name calling, tell him you don't have time for immature boys. That's the issue - girls mature faster than boys do. They reach puberty faster, they mature emotionally faster, and sometimes guys can't handle it.
Be careful - he may like the girl he's flirting with more. In which case, you need to be an aloof ice queen to him. Don't let him know you like him, and better yet, start being interested in other guys. Does your best friend know you like her brother? If she does, she may have told him and he's not returning the feelings. If she doesn't, don't say a thing.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 January 2014):
If he's mean to you, don't go out with him. It's not mature, and you might get hurt. Always remember that you deserve to be respected by a man, not to be treated badly. If he does like you, then he should respect you and not be mean.
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