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writes: I've fallen in love with one of my close friends and was thinking about telling him this weekend but now hes just told me that hes spent all day with a girl hes been seeing.He says its just a casual sex relationship and he doesnt think it will develop into more, and she has a boyfriend.I dont know what to do now because im overidden with jealousy and dont know how to deal with my emotions. Should i just try to forget about it (which would be the hardest thing ever) and concentrate on our friendship or should i hold out incase things end between them?
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (25 August 2006):
 Maybe you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. He obviously has no feelings for this other girl and she has none for him as she has a boyfriend. So to be fair theres nothing stopping you. Invite him out for a drink and tell him how you feel. Don't admit to him exactly how strong your feelings are for him until you know how he feels about you. He might be interested or he might not. If he isn't interested you have still got him as a friend but you can now focus on meeting someone else as you know he is not interested. Don't be embarrassed if he is not interested because if he is a true friend he will help you to forget by never mentioning it again. Hopefully he is and I wish you all the luck in the world
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reader, SoNzZz +, writes (25 August 2006):
 I have been in the exact same position as you. And i know it hurts as hell! But if the person you really like is going out with someone else then the best thing you can do is leave it. Because if the girl finds out...not only will the whole realtionship blow off...but the only person that will be hurt is you. Trust me!! Its happened to me!
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reader, layla +, writes (25 August 2006):
 well i think if hes seeing her and she has a boyfriend then i think you should wait and see if this relationship will last. Yes i think that you should tell him but wait a while. good luck i hope this helps.
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