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writes: Ive known one of my mates for about 8 years now and ive really liked his sister for quite a while. Im 20 and shes 16. I get on well with her and she always seems flirty every time i see her. My mate knows i think shes fit but should i do anything about it as shes a mates younger sister? I would really like to take her out but I dont know how he would react???
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2006): well...u shud obviosuly check with ur mate first, if it's allright wit him. \Or if u knw ur mate pretty well and know that he isnt gonna aprove, then u can always ask her out secretly lol. I mean cmon...we only live once.
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reader, dannyboy +, writes (29 August 2006):
talk to him first mate, i went out with my mates little sister who i had liked for ages, if you talk to him, youll know where the boundaries are, if he knows youre a nice guy it shouldnt be a problem but there will be some wierdness. the only thing i can see a problem with is that shes a bit younger but again if he knows youre a nice fella dont worry about him but you have to TALK TO HIM, or itll all go wrong believe me
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reader, bonym  +, writes (29 August 2006):
 If you are a decent, caring, and loving guy why should it be a problem? If you are going to treat this young lady with respect then show your friend that you like her a lot and will do good by her. Good luck. xXx
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reader, camille +, writes (29 August 2006):
 I think as she's only 16 your friend may not approve. My brother's 7 years older than me and he was so protective that he didn't want anyone taking me out, let alone a friend. You've known her since she was 8 and he may have a problem with this. If you really really like her and think she likes you, maybe you should talk to him properly about it. If you're going to look after his little sister and he knows you're a good lad you'd think he'd be happy, but then he'll think about the pair of you having sex and I'd almost bet he wouldn't like that. If he's against it, you could wait until she's a wee bit older. Whatever you do, don't go behind his back. Any variation of your options may result in you and your friend falling out, so it would be decent of you to talk to him. Bear in mind, that if he's ok with it all and she does like you, there may be repercussions on your friendship, more so if you split up with her in the future! It's a tricky one, but only you know if she's worth the potential difficulties. The best advice I can give you is to imagine that you were he and put yourself in his shoes, what would you possibly be feeling? You've known him long enough to have an idea how he may react. (Then there's their parents.... oh I don't envy you!)
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