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anonymous
writes:Three weeks ago I had a one night stand with the brother of a friend of mine.We agreed the next morning that it had been a really great night but that it would be a one off. As he had very recently begun to date another girl, and the fact that we both live a long way apart I thought that nothing could come of it and I told him that I did not consider him relationship material.I didn’t expect to hear from him again (I only ever see him at Christmas when he comes home to visit his brother) so when he left I simply said “see you next Christmas”.Since then, he has contacted me through Facebook and we have been chatting online. This has mostly been general conversation but a couple of nights ago he told me that he wishes he was here with me.I’m now feeling confused because of this. I really like him and I would like something more, but because of his circumstances (the new girlfriend and the distance) I have been careful not to let this show in my communication with him. Do you think I should let him know how I really feel or should I cut off this contact and give it up as a lost cause?
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