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writes: Hi I am a normal fourteen year old, thing is i think im in love.I've known him [barney] for over a year now.. and we have always had a thing going on.From june to march we were together, and did most of the oral sex, but i was happy because i really liked him and he never pressurised me.We broke up in march, and i bumped into him at a club with his new girlfriend who was a model.I was heart broken and from March to July completely lost. Everyone of my thoughts came back to him, and I started becoming really insecure and started to have panic attacks. They started off really small then got bigger, although im not sure why it was.But in July i saw him again and we started speaking, his had split with his girlfriend, and me and him were sort of together. Unlike before he was saying he luved me, although not spelt LOVE i chose to ignore it. We broke it off for the summer, because i was away for a month, but were still promised to eachother. When i came back, id asked him if he had got with anyone while i was away.And he said yes. I was so upset and ignored him for a few days, until he said he was truely sorry and he was drunk.So since August weve been together, and although he is also my age he has been further then me and had sex. He never pushed the subject, but i really felt like i wanted to. However i havent.We became inseparable and had phone convosations till one in the morning, mostly him complimenting me, but in the last week he has stopped and can be quite meen.I told him and said i wasnt going to put up with it and he apologied.Tonight we had a row, and coming to think of i need to get over him.The way he took over my life and how i subconsiently obsessed over him just brought me down more and more.My school work suffered and my friends.However much i love him i need to let go and be set free, he knows i dont care as much as i did, beacause i physically can't anymore, and he wants me more.Im not saying i want to cut all off him, because i love him, but i need a way in not making him my all.In not always thinking about him.Am i in love or puppy love?Help me please..
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reader, marktan_smiley +, writes (30 October 2006):
your to young to experience so meny things that a normal matured adult would do...look at yourself in the mirror
you have so many things to learn...so many trials to
encounter.your blinded by the truth and now youre saying that you started becoming really insecure and started to have panic attacks.that's so senseless for a 14 yr old
explore new things have fun youre still 14...and the
relationship w/ this guy only affected your studies it will
only lead you in a disaster... forget him he's noty worth it....
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reader, hannahuk +, writes (6 October 2006):
tell him where to go!young lads are still experimenting an after 1thing,your still young go out with your girlfriends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): Hold on a minute...you're 14??????
That says a lot! The sort of things you mention in your question are things I would expect to hear from an eighteen year old like myself!
He is a waste of time and he is using you for sex. He is a player. Get away from him fast!
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