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writes:okay this is kinda long but I'm just desperate for answers. okay there's this guy that I liked since last May and before I started liking him, he would always stare at me, whenever I would pass by him, he wouldn't look at me until I turn around to look at him then I see him looking back at me and when I told him on msn that I liked him, he said he had a girlfriend but after that, he would still stare at me so we spoke on msn a couple of times after the incident. thing is, he's confusing me because sometimes it seems like he's avoiding me and sometimes it seems like he's not. we spoke on msn last december and we were talking fine, he asked me if I had a date in mind for prom and I told him not and I said: do you? and he said: I think so, then today I decided to msg him on msn and we spoke for a little bit then I said something last and then he set his status to away and he didn't reply for over an hour then he signed off...i don't know if I should just get over him or just keep trying to talk to him to get to know him better btw, he seems shy. my friend is planning on hooking me up with another guy who she knows and I think the guy is cute but he reminds me of my crush...they look too much alike:S I don't know if that's healthy for me...what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): get on with living - just go to prom with the new guy. dont waste time on the other one - you could email him and say if i don't hear by x. then i will go with someone else...
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reader, rambini  +, writes (28 February 2009):
 This guy has had plenty of opportunity to get with you if he wanted to. you were honest and told him you liked him, so it isnt like he is in the dark. He has also had 10months to rerciprocate that liking, or get to know you better and he hasnt done either. you deserve a guy who would bend over backwards to get to know you and spend time with you, not someone who stares at you like a piece of meat but doesnt bother talking to you properly. he is getting his ego massaged by the fact you like him, while you're just getting hurt. You should definately go on this other date, see where things go. You deserve to be happy with a guy who feels as strongly about you as you do about him, good luck x x
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