A
female
age
41-50,
*ellatrix
writes:Hi Everyone,Last night my instincts got the better of me and i decided to look through my mans phone. Well at first it was just interest in the photos he has. But there was a hidden file there that caught my eye. "Temp Cache" which is also on the computer but i never really thought about looking at it before. What i found shocked me to my soul. It was 23 photos of one of his old crushes dressed up in sexy cloths, a lot of them by her self and some with her friends. Now this was downloaded about 2 months ago. We have been together for 2 years now. I woke him up and asked why there were so many photos of her hidden away. He just said that her gay friend sent them to him. (My boyfriend doesn't have many photos just of the Zoo and some of his mates). I didn't believe his story and got him tell me the truth. One night he was downloading porn from his mates computer and thought he'd down load some pictures of her. The fact that he hid it from me and lied about he he got them made me so angry. Our sex life hasn't been the same as it was the first year of our relationship. So I am wondering Cupid, should i be looking out for signs of cheating, and what would that be? I have made some ground rules, don't hide photos of a sexy crush you had, cause it only bring up hurt....
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reader, AlexCM  +, writes (2 September 2009):
firstly. if you dont trust this man then then its not going to work. you need to tell him that your worried, and hopefully he will prove too you that hes not cheating but i personally have been in the same postion and it didnt work out the way i wanted. theres lots of signs that a man is cheating but do you really want to be worrying about this everytime he goes somewhere of uses his phone? its not worth it sweetie. honestly. xx
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