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writes:Dear Cupid, I had an affair with an married woman. It had been one and half years since we had never meet and talk. One day, I met another woman at work and she's really my type. Unfortunately, she is also married. I keep my self very strongly not to do the same mistake again. So, I kept myself away from her. It went very well. But, she remind me of my ex. I'm start missing my ex so much. I had a bad day at work one day. I was so depressed and felt so lonely. Then I called her and we talked about half an hour. This is my first time calling her after we had broke up for one and half year. She said that she still love me. I don't know what to say. I just hang up. Nowadays, I'm missing her a lots. I'm pretty good at picking up girls. I tried to date a few girl during this one and half year. But nothing lead to a relationship. I didn't find a girl who I really like/love. I need to admit here. Although I'm good at picking up and talking to a girl. Then, I don't know what is the next move? I'm afraid of what if we become a couple because I don't really like her. I'm afraid what if I'm too busy with this girl. how about my goal and my future study and improvement plans? I was just trying to replace my ex with someone else. I tried many time and it failed. Now, I felt great after writing this out to you guys and really hope you all can give me some advise which can help me. Thank you all, Kelv
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your kind advice. I know I can't replace my ex. But it just happened to miss the old time even though you are with another girl :(
I think I need to find a girl I really like and slowly build a relationship as you advised.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 June 2012):
 You had an affair with a married unavailable woman and have not talked to her or seen her for a year and a half.
You meet a girl you like, then you take her out and spend time with her and treat her nicely and see if a relationship can develop. They take TIME to develop it’s not a sudden rush…
You can’t REPLACE your ex. You have to get over her and open your heart and mind to a new woman and new experiences.
If you have no trouble meeting women and getting them to go out with you, then do so. And when you are ready you will meet someone and slowly get to know them. Don’t rush it… take your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPlease advise me..
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