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writes:I just want to know if it's normal for this girl that my bf works with to come to my work and not be able to look at me or introduce herself. We have had problems about 5 or 6 months ago because of this girl and my bf going to her house without letting me know. She didn't know she was coming to MY work today, I think she thought it was just a company he had called her from....when she got there, she looked all happy until he mentioned I was his girlfriend and she got all silent...I'm confused on her actions, she didn't bother saying too much to me except for "hey"....I just want to know if this is normal or not. First time meeting this girl too and my boyfriend has worked there since October. Please give me some advice, I just thought her actions were a little odd. THANKS in advance! Reply to this Question
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reader, creamepie +, writes (21 May 2007):
It seems to me they have had an intmate incounter.Why is he so involved with her that's not acceptable . He can't have both of you make him choose.Or go detective on him remeber your gut won't steer you wrong .
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know for a fact this girl is NOT shy. She is actually far from it. I know she liked my boyfriend and was always having him work with her...which she didn't do to anyone else....just kinda odd, you know??? Thanks for the advice though!!!
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (18 May 2007):
I personally would be VERY worried what they have been getting up to, why would he be going to her house and not telling you. Thats not normal or trustworthy. But you say you can trust him, so...she coulod generally be shy, as sometimes when i meet people i am very shy/reserved.
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (18 May 2007):
I personally would be VERY worried what they have been getting up to, why would he be going to her house and not telling you. Thats not normal or trustworthy. But you say you can trust him, so...she coulod generally be shy, as sometimes when i meet people i am very shy/reserved.
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reader, stina +, writes (18 May 2007):
 Hi Anonymous,
Well, my thought is that she likes him more than a friend and was upset to see who her friend chose "over" her.
But my other thought is that maybe she felt like you didn't like her since she was the one who caused problems and it made her feel uncomfortable finding out then and there who you were.
Or maybe she's just the shy type who doesn't really open up until she gets to know someone.
I can think of more reasons why she would get quiet, but the fact of the matter is that if you have trust in your boyfriend then her actions shouldn't matter. It seems like he's being pretty honest, in my opinion.
I wouldn't worry about it unless you have good reason to believe something is going on.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe has never cheated on me and basically this is just about her actions. I trust my boyfriend very much, we have had our share of problems of course, but I know I can trust him. It was just odd the way this girl acted towards me......it just wasn't too normal to me, that's all....
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reader, Trev +, writes (18 May 2007):
 Sounds like your question may be is your boyfriend cheating/will cheat on you or is he faithful?
Does he have a bad track record? Has he cheated on you in the past? If you dont trust him, do you have reason?
It's possible a guys has a fling at work. But all guys have women coworkers. Everyone has opporitunities to cheat. Without your trust, your distrust will push will cause him to look in another direction. Once trust is broken, it takes a long time to repair.
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