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writes:Me and my bf had dated for 3 1/2 years off and on. The last time we broke up i left him for another guy. Now me and him are back together and I'm for real about us this time and he says he is too. We have been dating so far for 4 months now. When we first started dating he told me that he joined the army. I support him and all but knowing that hes gonna be gone all summer just kills me. I'm a freshmen and hes a junior and when he graduates next year hes gonna leave me for 3 yrs.! I love him so much and i know he loves me because he wants us to marry when he gets back. I know I will but i don't know what to do when hes gone?! What if he comes back a changed man...then what? Please help me!
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (18 May 2007):
Your only 13-15. Tell him you will talk about it when he gets back. In three years, not only will he be a changed man, but you will be a woman. Wait and see what happens, dont get to wound up about something so serious at your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2007): Tell him the two of your can get "engaged" when he gets back. You can then stay engaged for a year or so before getting married which should be enough time for you to work out if he is a changed man or not.
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reader, Trev +, writes (18 May 2007):
 You know what to do. You have a lot of time to move on to the next guy. No stress now. You will probably break up before then anyways. And if not, then say "listen, your going to be gone and i dont want that. if im single when you get back then we can date. then it is meant to be."
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