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writes:this is a bit long so pleas bear with me and sorry in advans about my spelling.well im a member of a site for people with diffrent kinds of medcon/lurning diffacultys/disablitys and ressonlty a fellow meber got in touch and we have been chating she has mild artium an a few other things and i have mild NF btw we have only been talking for a few weeks and we r fb mates but ressonlty shes talking about hooking up and going to a hotle or camping to geaver but the problem is shes only 16 an im 20 i know its a bigish age gap and im not intersted in her like that but i dont know how to let her down gently as of her condishon i probly inadvetiedly lead her on by calling her hun and sending xs but i do that 2 all my girl mates she keeps saying im fit and stuff i dont want to hurt her fealing at all she such a lovely girl any advise on how to let her down geantaly ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (19 April 2012):
 You will have to make it clear to her, that you can only be mates, that you are too old for her.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (19 April 2012):
 I think you start with a sincere apology. Tell her that to clear the air, you are only interested in a friendship and nothing more, and that you are sorry that anything you might have said or done gave her any mixed messages. Tell her that she's an amazing person, but that your feelings are only for comradery and friendship.
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