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writes:So I was flirting with my friend (a guy) via text messaging, and he made a silly comment which lead me to agree with it and adding a remark of my own that was a little more forward. If he was dense about my feelings for him before, I think my response was pretty clear. But after that he just got cold on me and stopped talking. Is this something a shy guy would do to a girl he likes? I'm having trouble reading his signals. Sometimes I get the feeling he's interested, but then he turns around and does things like this. lol So I have NO IDEA what to do now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe's not completely ignoring me. He went out of his way to say hi to me the other day and he's texted me. He seems to be back to his normal self, so that's just a little weird! But now I'm going to just chill out. If he's really interested I'm gonna let him come to me, but I'm not gonna wait around. :) (even tho he'd be on the top of my *want* list lol)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): Don't reward behavior that makes you feel worthless. If he's acting cold towards you, than I think a pretty straightforward interpretation is that he's not interested. Forget anything that he said before because actions speak louder than words.
It's not fun or comfortable to be rejected. Sure. But if he was interested, he would have responded in a warm and positive way.
Hold on to the hope that there will be someone else out there who will eagerly jump at the chance to engage in flirty conversation with you and then take it to the next level.
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