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41-50,
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writes:me and my x split up last year due to my sexting and emailing other women and she kicked me out even thou it was meant to be for a few months she still hasn't and now wont let me back (harsh i know but that's what she wanted) basically i cant get over her,cant stop thinking of her, ive written, emailed, texted opened up my heart and soul, she is the 1 for me, never have i felt so comfortable with anybody else. i know she loved me with all her heart and i really believe she still does. she has told me to move and if she decides at a later date she wants me back she will let me know but if im with somebody its her tough luck (again very odd) i cant bear the thought of going out with somebody else and am struggling to move on. im a good looking man and can pull near enough any woman i want, ive got around 15 woman who want me to go out with them now and ive had sex with plenty in the last few months, but nothing is helping me get over her. when ive finished i think of her instantly and go back to being down and wondering why i made the mistakes i did. how can i get over her or should i wait for even longer to come to her senses???
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): Move on dude, next time you'll know to treat your woman with a little more respect. If you dont learn from this then you never will but you got to leave her alone, if she's ready then she'll let you in but you can't force it....if you love something then you have to let it go...Good luck!
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 How long are you prepared to wait? Another month, six months, 12 months, five years? What do you intend doing while you are waiting, will you sit at home twiddling your thumbs waiting for her to call? Put your life on hold?
I think the fact you claim split up last year but have had sex with plenty of other women in the past few months indicates that you have not seriously attempted to get the relationship back on track.
Face it, your ex girlfriend knows you for what you are and she isnt interested. I suggest you write the names of those 15 who are waiting to go out with you on a piece of paper, get a pin and stick it in the paper. Where ever it lands is the lucky girl to have you until you stuff up again and she too sees you for the person you are.
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