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I really don't like my body so I won't let my bf touch me...

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Question - (13 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *oulouxox writes:

hi i need helpppppppppppppp!!!! i have been with my bf for 4 months now. i love him so much but theres 1 problem. i dont like my body i will never show any skin and i wont let him touch sertain areas.eg belly legs boobs n bum. i dono how i cn over come this. i know he likles my body but at a size 14 n 38D boobs i dont feel atractive. can any one help. plzzzzzzzzzzz

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A female reader, _Princess_ United Kingdom +, writes (13 October 2008):

Your boyfriend likes you because of the way you are, but before you let him touch you you need to be comfortable with yourself. Learn to love your body for what it is. A relationship is about the connection you have physically and emotionally. Try new clothes that make you feel sexy and go and buy new underwear that you want to show off. Dont feel pressured into doing anything that you dont want to but talk to your boyfriend and see what he says about it all. I think that you will find he doesnt care what you look like and if he doesnt understand then he isnt worth it!

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A male reader, 1trainer1 United Kingdom +, writes (13 October 2008):

have you talked to your bf? he is the one that you wanna share your body with. if you explain to him that you are shy and that you are unconfortable showing your body then he will be able to help, try to go to the beach with him or go swimming somewhere where you would have to wear a swimming costume.

maybe buy yourself some lingerie and that usually makes a women feel good.

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A female reader, tammye17 United States +, writes (13 October 2008):

tammye17 agony auntall i can tell u is to love ur self no matter what size...iam pretty sure u are fabulous at a size 14....iam a size 12 and i know i turn heads. ur self assurance is verry important. people perceive that. if he likes you like that then let him like u. you are beautiful no matter what size.

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