She lied! It turns out she's pregnant. I don't know what to do?
Q. why l was lied to about a pregnancy, we split up after a 2 1/2 year relationship with my partner, shes told me to leave her house and not come back, after accusing me of cheating on her, which is not true l have my whole family which back me up,the ...
A. 5 February 2008: Or maybe you wernt the father??????? just a suggestion because she obviously didnt feel the need for you to know.... (read in full...)
Two accidents with two different guys, will I have to wait for the baby to be born before I know who the father is?
Q. I last saw my period on December 25 2007. On January 2nd, I slept with an old flame and the condom actually broke in our case. A couple of days later, I got back with my boyfriend and we slept together unprotected. I was due for my period on January ...
A. 5 February 2008: its very important you find out who the father is due to blood testing reasons if anything happned to your child blood related, theyd go to either you or father and if the one you choose isnt actually the father you'll create a huge mess within your ... (read in full...)
Can you discover paternity without a DNA test?
Q. I'm pregnant with two baby daddy. I slept with these guy in the same month. How can I find out which one is the daddy without DNA test....
A. 5 February 2008: U need a DNA test hun. One question you need to ask yourself is- What would you do if in some years time, your child needed a blood test to match the fathers for any medical reason and the tests didnt match? Get it sorted now, not some years down... (read in full...)
My marriage is breaking up, but I love her too much to leave! What can I do?
Q. Hi, I hope you can help, i recently got married only 7 months ago and two days ago we had an arguement over mobile phone texts which isnt alot a know but it has been a build up over a year or so of things and she has now walked out on our marriage ...
A. 3 February 2008: Ask her if she still loves you. She did marry you so there must be something there, even though you both argue, so do every married couple. A marriage without arguments ( to clear the air ) is considered unhealthy, you should tell her this before ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant and in love with a man who is engaged.
Q. Hi. well i am still in love with the this guy who has a girlfriend who lives in south africa. he told me he couldnt answer my questions till he had seen her! well he went in october while he was away i tried to move on with my life i even started ...
A. 29 January 2008: Wow, its almost like im reading my own story! lol. I'm going through almost the same situation! how odd! Well, I told the guy when I was pregnant and he didnt want to know because he was going to propose to the missus. He said it would be best fo... (read in full...)
He says it's tobacco, but is he really smoking weed?
Q. My boyfriend smokes using a shottie bottle because he doesn't want his fingers to turn yellow from rolling cigarettes. The problem is, this method means he gets the whole hit of nicotine at once so when he doesn't smoke he goes absolutely insane. ...
A. 29 January 2008: Im almost certain i think youll find hes smoking weed!
Cocain can be smoked through a bottle aswell, but i doubt hes using that.
I used to smoke weed myself a few years ago.
It would be called smoking a bong, smoking out of a bottle.
I h... (read in full...)
How do you please a man?
Q. I want to know some good tips on pleasing your man sexually? what will keep him coming back for more like a man would with his mistress. I am ready to end my 5 year relationship and experience other men. I have a vision to give him?(when I meet him) ...
A. 29 January 2008: experiment, try something youve might not have done before.
Whether it be wathing porn together, using toys or making love in a daring place youd never dream of doing, yet have thought about. Youve been together 5 years, there must of been some... (read in full...)
He has a "long distance" girl on the side. Should I leave him?
Q. I have been with my current bf for 1 and a half years. He had a long distance relationship and told me he ended it. But, I found out they still keep in touch and he updates her on what is going on in his life. He denies that they still communicate. ...
A. 29 January 2008: Leave, right away! Hes playing you both for a mug!
his bit on the side wouldnt be contact if she didnt have any incentive to go on. sounds like hes saying one thing to you and another to her. You can do much better than this, dont put up with it.... (read in full...)
How do you find the balance between loving too much, or not enough?
Q. How does one find the balance? I recently heard a theory that if you show women you love them too much, all you do is chase them away. But at the same time, if you don't show then you love them, they will feel unwanted. What the f--k is tha...
A. 29 January 2008: Well, i think youll find that this "balance" isnt supposed to take effect all at once straight away.
As a woman who knows about the "balance" and likes it to be abided by, i will fill you in on what it means.
In the begining of a relation... (read in full...)
How do you know if you're gay?
Q. Okay, so I don't know if I'm gay, straight, or bi. My first pornographic experience was near 5th grade, and I sorta got hooked since. I've been looking at boys from time to time, and I even thought some of the boys in my school were cute as I grew ...
A. 29 January 2008: well, iv always said, if you never try youll never know!
its obviouse your curious about sexual relations with men or you wouldnt take pleasure in watchin gay porn.
Id say go for it, no one need know about, try it out and if you dont like it then ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend, how can I speed things up?
Q. i'm 14 and i want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend. ive been with her for 3 months now, and i really like her alot for such a short space of time. you guys probably think im too young to know what love is but i do, i was with this other ...
A. 29 January 2008: Shes made up her mind, and in a very mature, smart way. She will not have sex til shes 16. Not only is this very smart, but its a legal decision. In the uk it's illegal to sleep with a girl under the age of 16. Bear this in mind. You might want it ... (read in full...)
I like him as a teacher; his staring bothers me. What should I do?
Q. Hi I have a problem to discuss need some advices. There is a teacher at my school he stares at me a lot, and everyday I enter the classroom he always makes an eye contact with me. I heard that he even got married a few months ago. I like him as t...
A. 29 January 2008: If it's just eye contact, that might not be a reason because he fancies you, in my opinion, eye contact shows a sign of professionalism and respect. And as a teacher. he probably uses eye contact as way of remaining a professional teacher. I think ... (read in full...)
We fell in love 5 months ago, now he wants to end it, why?
Q. hi i met a wonderful man 5 months ago and the way we met we both believed it was fate. we clicked straight awy and fell in love he was always making me feel spcial telling me how much he loved me that i was the best ting to ever happen to him. we ...
A. 29 January 2008: Well, in the understanding that you're certain he actually did love you, then left you, there has to be some sort of hidden reason why, and you obviously want to know without sounding too desperate or clingy. I suggest you call him, don't cry, sni... (read in full...)
We fell in love 5 months ago, now he wants to end it, why?
Q. hi i met a wonderful man 5 months ago and the way we met we both believed it was fate. we clicked straight awy and fell in love he was always making me feel spcial telling me how much he loved me that i was the best ting to ever happen to him. we ...
A. 28 January 2008: youve not been together that long, 5 months is a short time. And its like that song "you cant hurry love".
It isnt the best way to go about a relationship. And he clearly has a reason not to be with you or youd still be together.
Hunny learn fr... (read in full...)
My wife had a boob job, after I said no. I am leaving her!
Q. My wife went and had a boob job and I find it absolutely disgusting. Once she had small, pretty breasts and I loved them just the way they were. she kept asking me if she should get them "done" and I told her no, not only no but, H--L NO!!!!! I ...
A. 28 January 2008: ok firstly, im wondering whether you love the woman you AGREED to marry! AND DID MARRY! I sounds like youve made up your mind, but if your going to leave her for such a small and in my opinion petty reason, i think its safe to say your shallow, ... (read in full...)
Why won't she just tell me???
Q. Recently my ex called me and told me she was pregnant by me. I was shocked, even though we did have sex months before then. I proceeded to do the right thing as I still loved her and wanted us to be a family. I started making preperations to buy ...
A. 22 January 2008: well, firstly i commend you. Its a shame because you actually want to be a dad and have a family, she really should have more respect for you, not just as her parnter but as a father to be. You need to put your foot down here and tell her that by ... (read in full...)
Masturbation - is it common?
Q. ive always wondered, is it okay to masturbate? is it common or not? everyone goes round saying 'you're a wanker' etc. is this because everyone does it or am i a one off?...
A. 9 October 2007: Everyone either does it or has done it!
Some women (and men) even buy toys to help them along!
Im sure your aware that most women will own a vibrator or clitoral stimulator, so what do you think they have one for,,,,,,,ill give you a hint, its not ... (read in full...)
I am gay, should I come out of the closet?
Q. im gay, should i come out the closet? my parents are VERY homophobic. just yesterday they saying how being gay is such a waste....
A. 9 October 2007: Ok, hun i think you should definatly come out because you cant really live a lie, if your gay you shouldnt deny it to anyone-certainly not any homophobs! Even if they are your parents!
Once they know theyll probably be in a bit of denial (most are)... (read in full...)
What are the relationship 'bases'?
Q. What are the bases in relationships?? x...
A. 2 October 2007: Its not just about sex in a relationship or so others have put it, the sexual bases.
The bases (as in foundations) that hold a relationship together are (as said before) trust, loyalty etc.
You show eachother compassion, affection as in kissing,... (read in full...)
Can you break the hymen with your fingers?
Q. Can you break the hymen with your fingers? ...
A. 27 September 2007: I think you might be able to although you'd need to apply a hell of a lot of pressure. But why would you want to break your own hymen? Is it so that the next person you sleep with wont know your a virgin? If so-theres no need! Every woman needs... (read in full...)
He said hes begining to like me but he has a wife and child. What am I going to do?
Q. I like this guy and he said he's beginning to like me too..but the problem is he has a wife and a child..what am i going to do?..should i believe him?...
A. 23 September 2007: I say, instead of assuming things wont work out (probably wont but...), make sure first as hes admitted he likes u!
Ask him out-right first if hes in love with his wife and ask him what he thought was going to happen after he told u he liked u!
... (read in full...)
During a break my guy got with a barmaid. Hes back with me but he's still drinking in the pub she works in. I want him to stop drinking there!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years we broke up in March for 6 weeks and during that time he started seeing the barmaid of the local bar he drinks in. We got back together and she kept on phoning him even though he was back with me. ...
A. 21 September 2007: Im not taking sides here, just stating facts!
You were on a break, incase you werent entirely aware of the circumstances of being on a break it means for a certain amount of time (or forever), you are not together!
You both can do exactly as you p... (read in full...)
I went out and cheated on my girl. I want to make it work with her for my daughters sake but my feelings aren't the same anymore..
Q. hi.I need suome advice of wot to do!I have been with my fiancee for 6 and half years and we have an 18 month old girl.Last weekend saw me go out and stay round a mates!I ended up taking a girl with me and we made love!I really dont know what to do ...
A. 21 September 2007: This will sound harsh but i think you want to live the fun of the single life and have the security of your relationship. im afraid, you cant have both!
If your feeling different about your parnter, you may find it very hard to shake off.
So ma... (read in full...)
What are the chances of a relationship working in the long run, if you left someone else for them?
Q. I just wanted to know that if you are in a long term relationship and leave for another person. What are the chances of this working out? What's in it for the long haul?...
A. 20 September 2007: Do whatever you think is right, you will, however, be taking a huge risk! But theres risks in anything you do in life. you only live once so you now have two options, Option 1: Stay with your current relationship, possibly be unhappy, (im assuming... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend, but I have feelings for someone I consider my soulmate, too!
Q. I have been in a relationship for a year now and I love my girlfriend to death. The only thing thats bothering me is I have began to have feelings for another girl. I feel like she is my true soulmate but I know that I can never have her. As long as ...
A. 20 September 2007: If you truely want to persue this soulmate of yours, ask her first what she thinks. If she agrees she feels the same for you as you do for her, then let your current gf go, as said by someone else, shed be hurt and offended that you found your sou... (read in full...)
Ladies: what can I do to win her over? Any suggestions??
Q. why cant i win her over? what do i do? she likes someone else more then me at least i think. we have gotten close but then she faded away. how can i get her to like me again? what can i do that she'll never forget? ladies help!!!...
A. 20 September 2007: Tell her the truth, but try not to sound too needy! just tell her you like her and wanted her to know that. whatever it is your feeling, let it out, it may be the way she smiles, or the way the wind blows in her hair. whatever it is tell he... (read in full...)
I wouldn't have cheated if I had been sober, but how do I shake this feeling of guilt?
Q. Hello everyone. I've been dating this wonderful girl for about 2 months now, but something has happened to turn my life upside down. Last weekend, I went out drinking with some friends of mine, and I wound up cheating on my girlfriend. I d...
A. 20 September 2007: The guilt is telling you that you love your girlfriend. These things happen, just forget about it, focus on your girlfriend and just learn from your mistake. I thinks thats all you can do hunny. xxbest of luckxx... (read in full...)
How do I make myself ejaculate?
Q. hi i want to know how to squirt by myself i kinda have but i want to really squirt. How do i do that?...
A. 19 September 2007: If you can get hold of it, then i know of a great gadget that will help you get to climax!
Its called the dolphin, its a clitoral stimulator, just a blue stick with a vibrating dolphin at the top!
You can buy this only at ann summers for just £12... (read in full...)
Is it best to stay friends after a break up or better to sever all ties?
Q. is it best to stay friends after a break up or is it better to sever all ties? my ex and i were very close and he often said i was his best friend as well as girlfriend! We broke up amicably and he said he wanted us to be like ross and rachel i.e ...
A. 19 September 2007: I think you should remain friends if its a mutual agreement.
Iv been able to remain close friends with someone i dated for about 6 months, we did lose contact although we were friends.
If you care enough to consider him a friend then youd want him... (read in full...)
He told his ex-girlfriend all about our sex life! What should I do?
Q. So, ive been seeing this guy for two months now. Im completely in love with him already, and he feels the same about me. But the other day when he was at work I couldnt help myself and took a peek at him IM messages. I looked at the conversation he ...
A. 18 September 2007: Ok, i think hes was being very disrespectful towards your privicy, although, im afraid to say, if you confronted him, he could throw the same accusation at you for invading his privicy.
He is in the wrong, and if you build a good enough argu... (read in full...)
What time of day should you weigh yourself?
Q. are you supposed weigh yourself at night or in the morning? i thought it was at night but my friend says its in the morning? please help...
A. 15 September 2007: Weigh yourself in the morning after youve been to the loo and before you have any food or drink.
This will giv you your exact weight.
... (read in full...)
Married for all the wrong reasons. Met a soul mate in someone else. Pls help.
Q. Married for all the wrong reasons. Met my soulmate in someone else. Please help....
A. 15 September 2007: This all depends on what is really classed as your soulmate?
What occurances make you think this other person is your soulmate?
Why did you marry for all the wrong reasons?
I really want to help you, although you need to be more specific. Im... (read in full...)
Since getting a bf, she's started ignoring me! How can I get her to like me, or even just be my friend again?
Q. Ok im 16 and have this really good friend who i have been really good friends with for about 2 years. She got a boyfriend about a month ago that she really likes, and nothings been the same since. Ive liked her ever since we've been friends and i ...
A. 14 September 2007: Im afraid to say that she seems to really want to move on. Shes happy with her new bf. I know you miss her friendship,but shell come back when shes ready, shes in the honeymoon period, let her enjoy it. Just be there for her when she needs you, a... (read in full...)
Want to lose weight by not eating.
Q. Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...
A. 13 September 2007: ok hun, this is a very seriouse matter! Your boobs shrinking should not be the concern if you stop eating! The concern is that you will become anorexic! Do not harm your body this way, there is a simple solution that you can do that doesnt mean ... (read in full...)
Want to lose weight by not eating.
Q. Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...
A. 13 September 2007: ok hun, this is a very seriouse matter! Your boobs shrinking should not be the concern if you stop eating! ... (read in full...)
26 year old virgin... Please help me!
Q. hey, im 26 and i know this is going to sound so stupid but im still a virgin ive had no trouble with men its just when the time comes i chicken out and make excuses to get away and then i never ring back, i feel like a teenager still. i want to ...
A. 13 September 2007: Firstly, this is normal for someone to feel like this about having sex for the first time. Age is but a number. If you have a partner that you are ready to try this with, and fully feel you are ready, here are tips to help you along: always m... (read in full...)
Does it make me a bad person to do something for myself for once?
Q. What are peoples reactions to thinking of number one. I have spent my whole life making others happy over myself, being walked all over, let down, used and a human punchbag (verbally) for peoples problems. Does it make me a bad person to do so...
A. 13 September 2007: I used to mate around with people who i thought were friends. They were terrible friends, infact, pathetic excuses for human beings!
I would let them walk all over me, put me down, give them anything they wanted, do any favours at all.
Do you know... (read in full...)
Is there any hope or is this all too messy to sort out?
Q. Help. Another threesome question with a twist: when first meeting my boyfriend 3 years ago I was a story teller and prolific liar. Blessed or cursed with the ability to say what I believed people wanted to hear. I told my boyfriend that I had ...
A. 13 September 2007: I havnt had an experience like this, lets just say i have a hidden talent for seeing reason and logic.
When you love someone, deep down, you want them to be happy, you want them to lead the right path of life.
So if this means letting them go, then... (read in full...)
What should I do about the woman I love who already has a boyfriend?
Q. Hello. I am in a torrid emotional sexual affair with a woman who has a boyfriend. We kept ending starting again cos theres so much attraction. We are like best friends as well and can talk about anything. We decide its safer not to see each other ...
A. 13 September 2007: You dont have to give her an ultimatum, although you could give her an option.Thats a nicer, more understanding way to put it.
She is still with her bf, so that may tell you something about how she feels already, although she may also be wait... (read in full...)
He is moving again due to work and I don't know how to tell him how I feel...
Q. realy need your help it looks like the guy im love with is moving again for work. but this time i wanna tell him how i feel but i dont know how to... please help! im so close to tears even when writing this. he moved back in april but then cam...
A. 13 September 2007: Ring him, and ask him if there is any other logic reason why he didnt want you to be matched with his friend.
he might tell you the truth then.
if he doesnt , then im afraid your going to have to swallow your pride and be honest with him.
te... (read in full...)
Is there any hope or is this all too messy to sort out?
Q. Help. Another threesome question with a twist: when first meeting my boyfriend 3 years ago I was a story teller and prolific liar. Blessed or cursed with the ability to say what I believed people wanted to hear. I told my boyfriend that I had ...
A. 13 September 2007: Im going to be extremely blunt here, and cruel to be kind and say that you should leave him, have enough guts to say to him " you know what i need to leave you and start fresh again", get out and away , rejuivinate yourself, attepmt to recreate a ... (read in full...)
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