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Unmanly stance of my penis

Q.   Hi Everybody! Could anyone help me with this problem? When my penis is erect, it doesn't lie down on my tummy; it stands upright, pointing at the ceiling. Then when I stand up, the penis , if it is very hard and if I'm very aroused, simply keeps ...

A.   26 December 2009: idk what to say lol my penis is like a totem pole and not like a banana and im fine having sex ^^ we are all normal just different shapes sizes etc...... (read in full...)

Do some girls just not like oral sex?

Q.   Hello, well i'm with my GF for 6 months, and we love and trust each other, maybe in 2-3 months she will move to my place.We're having sex really often each 2-3 days, but as i noticed she likes blowjobs but dislike when i'm performing it to her(oral ...

A.   25 December 2009: maybe it could be ur technique are you flicking er clck like crazy with ur tounge, or giving it some sensual lapping and sucking, if shes had it it the past, which bringing her past up can cause problems, but maybe its also what these other posters ... (read in full...)

Why do I always feel dead inside?

Q.   I don't know why but I'm in my late 20's and just lack the motivation to do anything. I find everything boring. I've never had a GF and couldn't be bothered, I've never had sex because it feels like too much hard work to bother with. I feel tired ...

A.   25 December 2009: damn i'd almost wanna say i feel how you do verbatim just with a few twists here and there. keep trying to get that help, and if the meds work find out somthing to wake up or spend energy on, because i love 360 and ps3, but i used to be active, and ... (read in full...)

Am I going to have to kiss him after he goes down on me?

Q.   i want to get eaten out. but idk how it feels. or even if i should let my boyfriend do it. it doesn't bother me that he is licking and sucking my vagina. but im going to have to kiss him after. ....

A.   25 December 2009: i enjoy the variety of tastes and smells as long as they aren't overwhelming. u shouldnt have anything to worry about if he kisses u after, unless it grosses u out but when i had a GF that kissed me after oral i loved how warm and soft her lips ... (read in full...)

How do I not ruin Christmas by not covering for my sister?

Q.   Okay, so a few months ago, in march, my older sister threw a party while i sat upstairs. my parents kept trying to call me because they were stuck at the seattle airport and i ignored the calls because my sister, "hannah" told me she would never fo...

A.   25 December 2009: if u think u can confront her without it being weird during the holidays go for it, but otherwise wait till after new years and tell ur mother or talk to ur sister about it, because it could be somthing thats to personal for her to just overcome, ... (read in full...)

I'm so through with letting people into my heart

Q.   Ok I've got this computer till after Christmas. I am 19 not a manwhore (3 partners) and have been in a relationship with a long time friend of 12 years for 1 year and we have a daughter which is now 6 months. My mother died when I was 15 and it was ...

A.   25 December 2009: its hard for me to quit marijuana but i know its not physically addicting, it just always helps instead of upping my zoloft and abilify doses, im hoping i can get cymbalta if i go the counselor and meds way otherwise I tough this break up BS, and ... (read in full...)

I love my dad and my boyfriend. Why is he making me choose?

Q.   I've been dating my current boyfriend for 5 months. He works for my dad and my father hates him (and that's an understatement). My father forbade all contact with him even when we weren't dating. We were just sitting on the hood of his car at a ...

A.   25 December 2009: well me having a 6 month old daughter and not looking foward to her puberty... id be mad at the slight age difference, and want to make sure the relationship was actually love and not a guy trying to get some fresh meat. just in a guy/dads eyes... (read in full...)

I'm afraid she's going to fall in love with her ex again!

Q.   So im with my Girlfreind, ive been with her a year, and we was best freinds, i mean as close as two people can get without going out, for four years before that. im 18 shes 19 Shes my first girlfreind, im her second boyfreind, the only othe...

A.   24 December 2009: me being the 1 on 1 kind of guy no outside men involved...id be furious but dont handle it my way lol it causes problems. does she still have contact with him atm? if not i wouldnt be too worried but ur insecurity is reasonable, in my eyes, becaue ... (read in full...)

Is 5 inches too small?

Q.   i am 18 a virgin with a 5 inch penis........i am really shy when it comes to sex...am i an ok size ...

A.   24 December 2009: its very normal and if a chick pokes fun she obviously cant accept you or is just shallow... (read in full...)

I'm so through with letting people into my heart

Q.   Ok I've got this computer till after Christmas. I am 19 not a manwhore (3 partners) and have been in a relationship with a long time friend of 12 years for 1 year and we have a daughter which is now 6 months. My mother died when I was 15 and it was ...

A.   24 December 2009: I intend on getting help of course, its just she says she may not want to get back with me period. So when i go through with help in hopes of her talking me back in the end of my "help" and get denied, im gonna get into a slump again medicated or ... (read in full...)

I got my friend's wife pregnant, now he's coming home from military duty!!!

Q.   Ok, so i have a problem, I'm in a huge dilemna. I've been sleeping with my friends wife who is at the moment in iraq. (He's a soldier) he comes back in 1 week. They've only been married for about a year, right before he got deployed they got ...

A.   24 December 2009: wow thats wrong to me, get it aborted and ditch him and her friendship to be short and harsh for less stress, if they cant forgive u... (read in full...)

She wants me to do things in bed that I disagree with

Q.   Ok I have a major problem. I have been dating this new girl for 3 months now. I have always been known as the sweet guy and I am very repsectful towards women. The thing is my girlfreidn is kinda kiny when it coems to sex. Which I think is fun but ...

A.   24 December 2009: do it my gf refuses to even touch my dick with her hands, and im miserably sexually frusturated... (read in full...)

Did he mean what he said about my private parts or was he really joking?

Q.   My boyfriend and I were in a fight and I was making fun of the size of his penis. Then he said well what do you call that stuff sticking out of you. He meant my labium majus. I asked him about it later when we had made up. He said he was just joking ...

A.   24 December 2009: joking about a mans penis is really hurtful but i have been with a girl with rather large lips and wasnt pleased with them...so i guess everyone has preferences... (read in full...)

It was from sex to cuddling, is this progress?

Q.   Ive been having sex with this guy a few times and he is a really good friend... its kind of a big deal that we have crossed that line... The first couple of times it was just about the sex...but last weekend when we had sex, it was slow, sweet and ...

A.   24 December 2009: sounds like progress to me, i hope you two last happily... (read in full...)

Why am I so dry?

Q.   so me and my new boyfriend are both 16 and sexually active..we've known each othersince about 10 years old but he just recently told me how hw felt which sparked a relationship..with my previous sex partners getting wet is absolutely nevr a problem ...

A.   24 December 2009: maybe ur just so nervous because you have known him for a few years, when i 1st tried to have sex with my friend of 12 years i was trembling and couldnt get hard, so it could be just performance anxiety but for females. could just get lube too for ... (read in full...)

Confusion about masturbation

Q.   Well, im a 16 male and i masturbate quite a lot maybe evan 3 - 5 times a day and its kind of like a habbit to me, for some reason im getting really horny really easily but then sometimes when im horny i wont get an erection but i will masturbate ...

A.   24 December 2009: hey i get really horny too just to get one out, i'm pretty sure masturbation is healthy until it interferes with your personal life. just dont beat urself raw lol and cummin quick can make u worse when u have sex cuz its a lot more intense... (read in full...)

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