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writes: i am in love with a guy but he lives so far away and we r going out but i find it hard cuz i love him loads plz can u tell me what i could do Reply to this Question
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reader, Amethyst  +, writes (10 August 2006):
 If at all possible, and if commited enough, move closer. Or hey, maybe move in together, but only if you're ready for such a commitment.But wait, are you stuck in the teenage age? So it's not up to you whether or not you move, is it? Well then, welcome to my world! Think about it how I do: You love him soooo much, and want nothing more than to be with him. But how would breaking up change that factor? It'd only make it worse because you'd NEVER be seeing him then. Make sense? Hang in there if you truly feel that it's worth it! Sure, you're going to go through rough patches, and have depressions from deprivation sometimes, but think about your goal. In X amount of years I'll be able to move closer!! Then I can be with him whenever possible! Exactly how far away is this? Cities? States? Countries??
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2006): unless you move nearer this will only get harder. My advice is if you love each other enough make a compromise(move!) but otherwise this will just screw you up and create worry anxiety stress and heartache. if thats what sounds attractive to you then hey feel free
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