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writes:I have been dating this guy for 3 months now, and during this period he's already left me once saying he wasn't happy. But then he asked for another chance to work things out and so we got back together again. And recently he has started behaving weird, just like before he broke it off. Finally, today he apologised for not being the nicest person lately, and said that he is not his usual self around me and doesn't know why. But he says he wants to try and its too soon to say that there is no hope for us. I've come to love him and I want us to work out but I'm not sure whether I'm doing the right thing. He said he loved me and when he broke it off, said he didn't love me, that it just went away. My only problem with him is that he talks to his ex, who still has feelings for him and he knows it, but he fails to see that she's waiting for him and wants him back. This made me uncomfortable and I asked him to tone it down but he couldn't. He says she's one person he truly wants to be friends with, and he doesn't have many friends, so I guess thats a good enough reason though it makes me uncomfortable. To be very frank, he has an ego, a BIG one and sometimes its hard. We mostly never do what I want to do because he has some problem with something associated to it or it itself. But all that put aside he is a very nice guy, though I'm not sure whether I'm wasting my time or not, wondering whether he'll come around to love me or not. I love him but is it worth it?
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reader, DearMe  +, writes (24 August 2010):
I'd Agree with the other answers. He donst care enough to stop talking to some on who still has feeling for him. Even though it bothers you, hes acting werid and hes broke it off saying he dosnt love you. And its been 3 months. Get out now find someone who truly cares. Good Luck xx
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 x2 on what CaringGuy said. This many problems, this early in a relationship, mean that it isn't meant to be. He doesn't sound like he's worth the effort in my book.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 August 2010):
If he's already left you inside 3 months, then he's not worth it at all. To be honest, he seems like he's still in love with his ex. Just get away from him.
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