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writes:Guys, I need some help. I was with a wonderful man for two years. We lived together for about a year and a half. He was my best friend. He started acting different over a period of time. He gained alot of weight, was smoking alot of marijuana, didn't go anywhere but work, very lazy. He wasn't himself. He was going through a divorce and his ex was giving him a hard time. One day I asked him flat out. "Do you love me?" He said "No, I don't love you and I don't love myself." We did not get into a fight because he never had one the entire time we were together. With that said, I packed my belongings and left. I left him everything and walked out with the clothes on my back. I was crushed. I didn't contact him. Six months had gone by and he wanted me to add him as a friend on Facebook. So I did. Two months go by and he writes me an email that said he cares about me and no one has ever done the things for him that I did and he would never to able to thank me enough. He said he owes me alot. I wrote him back and said that my friends don't owe me anything. Another month goes by and he wrote another email and said he started working out and has lost alot of weight, doesn't smoke week anymore and is going back to school. He then told me he doesn't want to be with anyone right now. He said he doesn't want a relationship. He asked me if I had a boyfriend. I wrote back and said I was liking my single life. (Lie) I was happy he was getting along so well and good luck with everything. Now, this month he writes me an email that says: "Hey Babe, I don't want to confuse things, but I miss you so much and look foward to seeing you over Xmas."I never went out with anyone after him. I love him, but I would never let him know that because I don't want him to feel bad that he doesn't love me. Question: Am I right to look at this last email as "Hey girl, how are you? Hope to see you over Xmas?"
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reader, BBee +, writes (19 October 2010):
BBee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your in put. I feel so much better.
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reader, Cccc  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 Its true! You cant love someone and show or know it while youre so terribly disappointed in yourself!
BUT what he is busy doing is AWESOME! Hes not just showing through action that hes busy changing Whether its FOR YOU or FOR HIMSELF which both are pretty awesome!
And he cares obviously because he still lets you know whats up in his life!
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reader, Sacred Heart  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 Well Dear, the way he is treating you shows that he loves you too... but due to certain problem which he didn't want to share with you or Simply didn't want you to be depressed like him... I think You should go ahead... In any relation its Love which is required more than your need for each other... He Just want to be back in your life... just give him another chance..
Regards
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