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I like this girl a school, but I'm shy and need some help.

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Question - (15 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, *b123 writes:

Hi, i kind of have 2 questions;

First...there is a girl i like but don't know how to approach her, to be honest i'm quite shy so i dont know how to start a conversation with her, any form of help will be appreciated.

My second is that she is in year 8 and i'm in year 10, and my friends have a problem with that, as she is 2 years younger, but i don't see a wrong, but whos right?

What could i talk to her about on msn?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008):

just go for it iam so shy aswell but it is not what your freinds think it is what you think just do it mate

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A female reader, lilmisse2424 United States +, writes (15 April 2008):

lilmisse2424 agony auntI say take a chance, even if your friends are not too happy witth it, who knows? It could be something worthwhile. It is quite clear that there is something about her that you like and can't stop thinking about.

I would also talk to her and get to know her more. You may share some things in common or may be in some clubs together. Take it easy and slow, and relax and just be yourself. If she likes you, then ask her out. If she doesn't, then it wasn't meant to be. You are young, and there is plenty of time and plenty of other girls you may meet. Do not worry if she doesn't like you. Good luck!

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A female reader, love girl  Jordan +, writes (15 April 2008):

love girl  agony aunthiii

i think that you should go talk to her , some girls like a guy to be shy but not too shy , you could start the conversation by introducing yourself , if you take the first move which is the hardest , everything else will become easier

as that she is younger than you , it doesnt matter what your friends think of her , what matters is what you think because you're the one who is dating her not them

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A female reader, oikid11 United States +, writes (15 April 2008):

oikid11 agony auntWell, she probably feels the same way...So walk up to her locker, flirt with her before class, and if she responses positively, ask her out, not as bf and gf, but to like the cinema, and if she says ya, ask her out after the date.

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A female reader, bellachic385 +, writes (15 April 2008):

bellachic385 agony auntI think you should go for it, even if your friends don't approve. You see something in her and that's what counts.

Talk to her more. May be you are both in a club or sport together and could talk about that. Take it slow and begin to flirt with her. See how she reacts. If it's positive ask her out.

Good Luck.

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