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*cecold
writes:I need help. Me and my g/f have been going out for 8 months, it's a long time for me and it's her first serious relationship. We've been taking it slow mainly because i think it's best if we do, she's still a virgin, and she's never even kissed a guy on the lips before me. There's one problem ~ we are starting to get to third base (finguring) and i don't have a clue what i'm doing...like it's going to be her first time getting fingured and i want it to be good for her any ideas?
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reader, love girl  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 besides the good ideas you should make everything specil for her , because girls' first times in everything should be really romantic and special because they will remember it till the day they die , so what ever happens between you , just make it really reaaaaaaly special
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reader, vsnod  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 The best thing to do is talk to her about what feels good. For example, when your had is down there, ask if it fells good, ask 'does it feel better here, or here?', so you find the right spot, etc. But really with all this kind of stuff communication is very important. It may seem awkward at first, but it will lead to better sex, and really knowing how to please the other person.
Also, when you go all the way, use a condom. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): dude, u need to watch some porn. and plenty of it. thats how i learned. and i was much worse off than you. i couldn't even figure out which hole it went in to. go to boysfood.com and watch a few flicks. and u can let her watch too. its not for pleasure purposes, but rather informational purposes. i've only been having sex for just over a year now and girls that have been active for 5 and 6 years are telling me i was the best they ever had!!! OH and one more thing, anybody that has ever said foreplay is unnecessary is a virgin. foreplay is king. also, stop fingering her for a few minutes and let het play with your penis for a while and see what happens.
best of luck to u,
josh
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