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I like one guy mate, and jealous that my girl mate likes another

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Question - (3 June 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

hi i am 18. i am undergoing a very miserable state nowadays because i just discovered that i like my very good guy mate,and i am not aware of his feelings.

another thing bothering me is that one of my girl mates is tryin to hit on my guy mate whome i like aswell, its disturbing me and i can feel the pangs of jealousy shootin thru my body.wat shud i do, i really want this relation to work out.

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A female reader, Aunt Jess +, writes (3 June 2006):

Aunt Jess agony auntget in there before she does.

you would b so p***** off if you discovered he liked you but thought you werent interested so got off with your friend instead.

just simply ask him out.

as for your female friend im sure she shall be happy for you or eventually get over it.

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A female reader, Smiler +, writes (3 June 2006):

Smiler agony auntHey there

Well sweetie if you are in fact keen on this guy what you waiting for... like martini says all fair in the game if you don't make your move you girl friend may just get in there before you, thats not what you want trust me cause you will be consumed thinking about what you could of had with this guy... so my honest advice to you is go for it girl.... stop hanging around ask this guy out and have some fun life is to short to waste what time we have worrying...

I hope my advice helped you a little... Good luck If you ever need anyone to talk to or just more advice i'm always here for you ok... i would love to hear from you again..

You Take Care Sweetie

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A female reader, Smiler +, writes (3 June 2006):

Smiler agony auntHey there

Well sweetie if you are in fact keen on this guy what you waiting for... like martini says all fair in the game if you don't make your move you girl friend may just get in there before you, thats not what you want trust me cause you will be consumed thinking about what you could of had with this guy... so my honest advice to you is go for it girl.... stop hanging around ask this guy out and have some fun life is to short to waste what time we have worrying...

I hope my advice helped you a little... Good luck If you ever need anyone to talk to or just more advice i'm always here for you ok... i would love to hear from you again..

You Take Care Sweetie

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2006):

I meant to say "...if you want it or not."

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2006):

If you are 'born' jealous, you can't change your jealousy problem over-night. It's a natural phenomena that will happen despite if you don't want it or not. All I can really see you doing, is try to go out with the guy and see how that goes. Since your female friend also likes the same guy and she doesn't know about your feelings towards him, it's all fair and game. Just remember that whatever happens, you should all be honest and mature about it, and not throw a fit.

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