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writes:Ok so here is my problem:I feel rejected. My best friend who I like more keeps talking about how he likes this other girl, whom im pretty sure likes him back. He knows i like him too...but its like he doesnt care. I feel like hes being a insesnitive prick.I really cant cope with this tho. I am geting exstremely jealous and have gotten to the point where i am frequently hyperventelating because i cant breathe well cause i get so upset. my hands go numb, so do my feet and lips and my chest gets tight. my friend knows that i have been extremely upset lately but i havn't told him why. i dont think i should . i mean if he cared enough about me wouldnt he be able to guess???im so jealous of this girl. she makes him sooo happy and i wanna be that girl! but i cant be. and im also so afraid that if they become a couple i will lose him as a friend. cuz with all my other friends when they get a bf/gf they always seem to ditch me and never have time for me.i dont know what to do. im afraid to tell him how i feel cuz ill look like a jealous freak...which i am. and i know i have no right to feel the way i do. i mean im not his gf so im not allowed to be jealous.what do i do? i wish i could stop being so jealous. but i dont know how too.
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reader, tiny-problems +, writes (19 December 2006):
 explain to your friend what is going on. if he's your mate he should take it ok, but you never no with boys...
dont be scared, most girls can control there jealously and let it pass. but obviously you cant, so you definetley need to tell him. Say summit like:
"i really do not want to tell you this but i like you, (insert louds of comments here) and i been acting strange because i guess i just been jealous, im really sorry."
this will not end well, i will tell you now. he'll probably be uncomfortable with you for a while, just act it off cool. you must tell him though, if it is making you ill.
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