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I like him, but he has a girlfriend. I feel guilty. Should I?

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Question - (17 January 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *appybunny_xoxo writes:

Ok I feel really guilty like in bad guilty way...See I like this boy his name is Miguel and were friends he knows that I like him that way...He is pretty cool with it it doesn't seem to bother him..He has a girlfriend...Well today we were texting back and forth we were flirting in a way...Well he texts me that his birthday is this Saturday so I went to the store and got him a gift...Then I called him and told him that I was going to give it to him so he says ok...Well I arrive at the school becuz he was working on a project...So he walks up to my car and I hand him his gift and we talked a little but he just kept on looking at me in a weird way...So I stopped looking at him becuz it was like he wuz trying to read my mind or something..he wuz looking at me all weird....Yeah it felt good talking to him and seeing him giving him his gift but now I can't help feeling guilty becuz he has a girlfriend and I feel like im somehow getting in the way of that..Should I feel guilty????

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (17 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou are just a friend and a good friend to him. You have done nothing wrong.You feel guilty because you fear you may cause a break up between them. This is only your fears.You may not be the only girl. It could be some other girl who could cause them to split.If they are not meant for each other, it is not your fault.

Just be friends and enjoy his friendship.

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