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writes:i left my husband about a year ago. i thought i was unhappy with our life together and messed up big time. now that i realize my mistake i want him back but i think it's too late. he has been with a woman for around 8 months or so. the thing is he still tells me that he will always love me because i am his wife and he secretly gives me money when i need it. we also have 2 small children involved in this. i love him so much and want him in my life so bad. he now feels like a complete stranger i can't even talk to him about our children so anyway my question is what do i do? how can i just get over someone like that? and is there any chance at all for getting him back and how??????? please help and give me all the advice you have i really need it.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (30 January 2008):
You have ALL the right in the world to ask and even fight for him back.You are his WIFE.I suggest you practice a bit more patience here coz it seems your husband is afraid of leaving the other woman just like that.Continue talking to him.Try to seduce him back into your life and arms.He's your hubby for crying out loud and he's supposed to 4giv you.I sense he's on the road of forgiving you.Persevere and you'll have your hubby back.Truly sad you found yourself in such a stuation.
Good Luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 Just keep your lines of communications open with him and hope one day he will take the bite on your bait and then you can reel him back in.
Man are creatures of habit. After wandering , he may want to go back to his old home.Since you have children , it is a stronger pull for him to come back.
You need to remain single and without a man to show that you want him back.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 Hi,
I am sorry to see you in this situation.
Unfortunately it sounds like he has moved on with his life.
You might have to accept the fact that after you left him he picked himself up,dusted himself off and got on with life - then met someone else.
Of course this is not to say in the future he may not want to get back with you, but you shouldnt hold out for this. You left him before, what is there to convince him that you won't do it again. I have to admit if I was in his position I would be thinking why jeopardise a new relationship with a person I love for my old marriage to a woman who left me.
I think the best thing to do is try and get on with your life, if you appear desperate to him it will only make things worse.
Sorry mate, all the best and good luck.
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