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writes:I met this guy and we talked online alot and we got on really well and he said he loved me and i loved him he asked for a picture a few weeks later and then after he saw my picture he didnt want to know he still talked but as friends and he started chatting up other girls i was so hurt because we was supposed to meet each other and i really liked him so i done something very stupid and made another account and used a fake picture and talked to him and he has seriously fallen in love with me with the fake pic and i love him with all my heart but hes in love with the picture not me i dont know what to do im so in love with him he thinks we are meeting soon aswell i dont know what to do please help me . Reply to this Question
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (6 May 2008):
 Hun you really want to be with a guy who loves a picture and goes for people with looks? Hmm i would delete your other account and leave him to his shallow ways
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reader, PreciousNY  +, writes (6 May 2008):
He is shallow and doesn't deserve a nice girl like you. How can you say you love him with all your heart when you haven't even met the guy. He clearly doesn't want to meet you or have a relationship, so forget about this jerk. Have some respect for yourself and don't let anyone treat you like this. It will only get worse as you get older if you allow people to walk all over you! You are no one's door mat.
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reader, happytochat +, writes (6 May 2008):
This guys sounds like he might be fairly shallow. Do you really want to be with someone who is so shallow? Dont you think you deserve a guy who isnt shallow, who loves you for whats on the inside and who thinks you look amazing on the outside too??? You do deserve that! this guy sounds like a loser and you would be better off without him. my advice is stop talking to him because he isnt worth your time. he obvisoully only cares about someones looks and thats not good when someone is like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): Honey, he doesn't sound like the type of person that's particularly faithful. You just created another account, and bang! You're out of his life, and does he seem to care? No. He just moves from girl to girl over the internet, and if he sees a fit on, he might fancy her and keep chatting. Can't you see he's a player? You might feel like you love him, but you can't be with a guy that doesn't love you for who you are. Unfortunately, I'm not sure it's going to be so easy to make this situation much better, because the truth would be embarrassing and he would probably be quite annoyed. I know it's hard honey, but can't you just do your best to forget about him and not talk to him any longer? Forgetting him is probably the best option, because it seems he's only interested in model-looking girls, and isn't willing to stop being so shallow. You're better off with someone that appreciates you for who you are. Good luck.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (6 May 2008):
 Wow... now that's a story! I have often wondered if something like this has ever happened to somebody. I guess I know now...
The problem here is no matter how you slice this one up, this will never end pretty. You can't meet him because you look nothing like the picture... and when he finds out that you're the one he was chatting with earlier and you fooled him... Yeah, it's not going to be pretty.
Unfortunately, you have created a situation that there's no way to recover. He's either going to be ticked off or completely embarrassed... not to mention angry as all hell. I'm sorry - I don't see a happy ending in this at all... and I'm sorry to be the one to tell you that bit of bad news. The only consolation here is that I hope you've learned to never do that again. I think that if somebody can't accept you for who you are then they don't deserve your time.
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