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writes: Had my first kiss with someone who I've been flirting with for weeks, but it was a peck! He had tried to kiss me on a previous occasion, but I didn't realise and it was awkward, and we didn't kiss, so I told him that I liked him and wanted to kiss him, so for a while it was weird because we both knew it was coming but didn't know when, so I left him and he said he'd walk me to his door, I smiled almost a smirk and went to open the door and he said come here and pecked me, thought it was just nerves just getting a peck but I seen him the day after and once again spent 3 hours with him, nothing then as I was leaving he pecked me so I said do I not get a proper one and he pecked me twice! What the hell is going on, he is 30 and had relationships before so I know he knows how!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 March 2013):
 I remember the first time I tried to kiss my now husband... he was not going to french kiss me because we were not yet sleeping together.... he equates french kissing with romance and sex... no deep kissing of women you are not intimate with... and he even sad with HORROR "are you trying to French kiss me?!!"
wow... that blew me away....
may this is how your friend is?
also just because a man has had prior relationships does NOT mean he knows what he's doing or how to kiss.
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reader, llifton +, writes (6 March 2013):
 wow he doesn't sound very alpha, that's for sure. maybe he's just incredibly awkward and nervous. or maybe he's just trying to be polite and take things slow?
i hate pecks. lol. so i can't blame you. just be patient with him. he probably likes you, he's just shy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2013): Maybe it's your breath OP, are you a smoker?
Do you have cold sores?
Maybe he doesn't like kissing in public.
He could be teasing, or maybe he's trying to be a "gentleman".
If it happens again OP ask him why.
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reader, Been Through It +, writes (6 March 2013):
 HAHA, WOW that sucks.
Well you have to show this man what a real kiss is. And by doing that.... I say kiss him like you want to be kissed. You'll then find out if there is connection between you two. I understand people can be nervous, but you don't want to develop a brother / sister relationship in the beginning or ever for that mater. I fully believe if the kiss is not there then the relationship is not there. Then you can decide if this is something you want to pursue.
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