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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hey. So, been with my boyfriend a few years. Had many, many doubts, dating back to one night when I kissed another man, 9 months into our relationship. He knows about this.I doubt whether I love him sometimes...doubt what I want with him, whilst other times I think I want all that he does too. I often have strong feelings for other men and these feelings coincide with them. Luckily the men I have liked have never liked me back and most have been crushes. I never want sex or kisses. Tried spicing things up and just not sure if I am attracted to him. Am racked with guilt as this man is truly the type of man most women would dream of. It's so hard making a decision, I can't decide how I feel. I sometimes wish he would go out and cheat on me, even though it'll hurt, to take this awful decision off me.3 weeks ago I thought I may be pregnant. The thought thrilled us both but when the test came negative I cried and cried. Now I'm glad it wasn't, but confused where these feelngs keep coming from.
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reader, carlalalee  +, writes (9 February 2009):
Maybe you should take a break, and just hang out with your girlfriends for a while. Then decide how you feel. You might feel like you like him so much just because your not dating anyone else right now.
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