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My period came but it was unusually light, could I be pregnant?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have had sex but the silly thing happened of the condom splitting. If i have came on my period the next day can i be pregnant? but also i took a pregnancy test on the 14th and one on the 17th and they were both negative. Iv came ...

A.   22 February 2009: Give it a couple more weeks and if things feel different to you, you will know your pregnant. Like throwing up, nasuea, not liking certain foods, things smelling different. ohh and the first sign of pregnancy u will probly have is soar boobs g... (read in full...)

I feel insecure, like I'm going to lose her...

Q.   Last year I was going out with this girl who came to the UK for one year. I really liked her and eventually got to know her. We eventually went out but there was always this other guy bugging her and I always suspected something was going on. ...

A.   21 February 2009: It could work... If theres a will, theres a way. Just dont be controlling at all. Ever heard of the "self fulfilling prophecy" Well if you worry about somthing so much, it will usually happen. For example, if you worry that your girlfriend is ch... (read in full...)

I love the man I have been with and I made a very big mistake...

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three years now. I am 21 weeks pregnant and we are both very excited. I was wondering, we had been having unprotected sex for a while and he had been ejaculating inside me. I finally got pregnant, but why ...

A.   21 February 2009: It took me 6 months to get pregnant. and we werent even trying lol we just thought i wasnt fertile...come to find out it just takes different people different amounts of time to get pregnant. So i wouldnt think any thing of it. ... (read in full...)

How can I be more confident around girls?

Q.   I am a 15 year old boy without a relationship, I think that this is because I can't talk to girls properly, I just get nervous around them and I can feel my cheeks burn up if I think I have said something stupid to them. Can you please tell me how ...

A.   21 February 2009: Dont worry i used to be the same way. I used to be sooo scared to talk to boys, esp a boy i had a crush on. My first boyfriend that i got when i was 14, thought i was really shy, because i never talked and when i did i was so nervous that i probaly ... (read in full...)

I'm so unlucky in love, help?

Q.   Hi! I cannot believe it's possible that I've been going through a breakup again! I'm a single mom of a 5 yr. old wonderful boy, and over these 5 yrs have had tons of boyfriends that never work out! I would say average 3 to 4 a year. I don't date ...

A.   17 February 2009: Yes. I have a boyfriend that im inlove with, but i dont feel lucky in love. Hes controlling and extremely jealous..to where i cant even go about my life like i should. I have a 6 months old. Dont feel bad about not having a boyfriend, take your ... (read in full...)

I'm 15, she's 18 and she wants to have sex on V-day

Q.   Ok well im 15 and ive been with my girlfriend(age 18) for 3 1/2 months and i love her and she loves me. We trust each other with everything and have told eavh other things we havent said before to others. We have been having sexual talks alot lat...

A.   9 February 2009: Dont jump any to anything, she could just wanna have sex with you and leave. girls use guys too. I dont know just wait longer than 3 months, and explain that to her, She should understand if she really loves you. especially if your a virgin, ... (read in full...)

Am I attracted to him, or his skin colour?

Q.   Hi Ok so im 15 and a sophmore in high school and my peoble is a little odd. I'm white and about a year and a half ago realized that I am more attracted to black boys than I am any other race. So when I figured this info out I kinda kept it to my se...

A.   9 February 2009: Thats not stereotyping... Its just what your attracted to. I like guys with blonde hair and blue eyes, and thats not stereotyping either, everyones different. everyone like different things. If we were all the same everything would be SUPER boring. ... (read in full...)

I think I'm bi-polar...

Q.   hey...is there a way to know you're bipolar without going to the doctor?. sometimes i think i'm bipolar because all of the sudden i start to cry and get angry at others for no reason..if you read this and your bipolar can you tell me some things ...

A.   9 February 2009: It could be hormones bipolor is manic depression.... (read in full...)

How can I know if this girl likes me?

Q.   Hi. I'm 19 and in college. Ok so I met this girl in one of my classes. I think she's pretty attractive and I think she feels the same way about me because I have caught her looking across the room at me multiple times. She does it repeatedly. One ...

A.   9 February 2009: No, just send her a message asking her to be your friend. Be repetative but not to where it gets annoying. Be friends with her for a couple more weeks and if you still get that feeling like she likes you then make a move,ask her to hang out or somth... (read in full...)

I can't get hard like I used to!

Q.   Ok so this is kinda long am sorry but its really a frustrating thing..it hurts me inside my ego is like dead ok so here it goes..ill tell u everything coz i really need ya peoples help and encouragment in a way it was on november when i tr...

A.   9 February 2009: THe best advice is to see a doctor... somtimes guys have circulation problems. They can give you meds. Im not sure....... (read in full...)

I just want him to cheat on me so I don't have to make this decision.

Q.   Hey. So, been with my boyfriend a few years. Had many, many doubts, dating back to one night when I kissed another man, 9 months into our relationship. He knows about this. I doubt whether I love him sometimes...doubt what I want with him, whilst o...

A.   9 February 2009: Maybe you should take a break, and just hang out with your girlfriends for a while. Then decide how you feel. You might feel like you like him so much just because your not dating anyone else right now. ... (read in full...)

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