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writes:good day guys,I am in deep pain right now..I don't know wat to do ..I feel like am going insane..I have been dating myboyfriend for 11months now which is almost a year.He has been in school ever since we started dating DAT means I have not seen for a very time buh he he just came back from school dis month. He went outing"love in air"...he did the basic introduction and so on ..we went for a program yesterday 04/11/2016 in redemption camp DAT was when a call came in,he left my side receive the call,at that point I wasn't suspecting him because the atmosphere was just too busy and noisy at the same time....After an hour he still hasn't returned then I began to look for him,I found him sitting in a corner alone and all moody,I was bordered because I haven't seen him in DAT mood before....then I began to demand from him what the call was all about.He told me that while he was still in school,he had s_x without another lady and right she is pregnant for him...Only God knows how old the pregnancy is...people I am in love with guy,I don't know wat to do...I don't know if I will be able to take this..I need your advice Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 November 2016):
 I understand that you don't want to leave him but he is going to be a dad and that is a very messy situation. He needs to man up and be there for his child. Also if he had unprotected sex with her then who knows how many there was. You should get yourself checked for STI's if you have been sexually active with him. Sweetie you cannot trust him. You will never be able to trust him again as he has broke that. Yes you might stay with him but you won't be happy and you will have low self esteem. You should leave him and show him he cannot treat you like that, don't allow him to walk all over you.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (7 November 2016):
 I know you do, OP, but he doesn't love you enough not to cheat and not to use protection with people he cheats with. He may have a sexually transmitted disease now - don't have any sex with him, not even oral sex, as you could get it too.
You deserve better and you won't get that from him. You will fall in love with other people too. You loving him isn't enough reason to stay when he's cheated. If he won't change, you are letting him cheat on you because you won't leave.
Please, OP - take care of yourself by leaving and being with someone who loves you back and won't cheat.
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reader, Racheybrown +, writes (7 November 2016):
Racheybrown is verified as being by the original poster of the question I don't want to leave him ..I love him so much
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (6 November 2016):
This would be a deal breaker for most of us. Not only did he cheat, it wasn't protected enough and she's going to have his baby - a lifelong reminder of the affair.
I don't think you should stay with him, any more. You will fall in love again and you'll eventually find someone who loves you and won't cheat, but it's not this guy.
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