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*ina :)
writes:hi im nina, and i was just wondering, I wil be seeing my bf soon. we havent seen each other for a year so it's hard and frustraiting but were still together. . . we chat, and text on the mob. we talk about everything, so one time i had the urge to ask him about sex and so, but he doesnt want it before marriage.. he doesnt want to risk. I totaly accept the not before marriage but still, would be nice.Were really close, he's a great sweet loving guy, and were planning for our future, its great. were both doing our half. but when we were together we just cuddle up or we just hug. i just wanted a bit more from him and I will be shy to ask..we havent even kissed.. im shysorry if you think its weird but i want to be more closer to my bf when i see him and i dont know how to start really.. so please help if you can.. nina ..
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reader, Nina :) +, writes (6 February 2010):
Nina :) is verified as being by the original poster of the question Actually,we brought up the subject only in chat. it was good. And im not putting pressure nor i wont force him but just would be nice..
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Why have you not seen him for a year? and when you do meet with him this time, how long will it be before your next get-together?
You need to try and overcome your shyness and just tell him what is on your mind as honestly as you can. It will also be an opportunity to see what his and your thoughts are about the future of your friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): Maybe he is just not ready emotionally for that experience. If you really care for the guy you will give him space and let your relationship develop to the point wher it feels right for him.
If you pressure him or force a situation to happen it probably will not go well. Let things go more slowly
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