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writes: i was with someone for over 3 years...rather than rehash all the tiny things that made me insecure, jealous, just didn't feel right etc...i can admit i was wrong on some of those things and reacted too jealous at times and should have been more relaxed..alot of my friends and even family said some of the things he said, did--- even if tiny would make most feel the same way i didi knew he loved me but i think he got fed up and it is why he left...the break up was not easy and i took it very badly..he was my first love, first time etc..met him when i was almost 21 and now i am 25...i did contact him a few months after through text message kind of saying you do still mean everything to me, i love you etc..and he just wasnt ready for it..basically said this isn't about him moving on or getting over me..he just isn't ready to do this all over again and its not a switch to turn on and off etc etc..i have left him alone for months..pretty much almost a year and in that time i have kept myself busy---traveled, worked out, met new friends, been on some dates..but deep inside i still miss him and feel regret for some of the things i did and still love him dearly...i am thinking of leaving him a v-mail just basically saying "i know its been a long time, been thinking about you and wondering how you are and how have you been..if you want, give me a call or text back"....and just see what may come of it..i know its a very high chance nothing will...but i figured i am sad without him..why not give it one last shot see if something can happen very slowly...atleast then i can look back and say i did make mistakes but i tried a few months later and then a year later to see if time can heal things and make things better and i really fought for the person i loved.....thank you for reading.
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (29 August 2009):
 Its hard to say. I think the things that you did to him were enough to overcome any emotional commitment that he had for you.
When that happens, inasmuch as he wants you, he probably feels to hemmed in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009): there is no chance to run into him or have a mutual friend invite me to something because we don't live in the same exact neighborhood or have mutual friends...so if i do this it would have to be by e-mail, voicemail or a text message.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009): hopefully he will not think i am crazy since he hasnt contacted me at all...
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reader, Failed relationships +, writes (29 August 2009):
ex-factor my situation is similar and i do understand how you feel about trying to hold on.. I think you should at least leave the v-mail like you said and see where it goes... Like you said if nothing becomes of it you can say I gave it my best to try to make it work... Start with that.. Also, when you text him to see if the 2 of you can talk what is his response? Leave the v-mail and see where it goes.... Good luck....
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