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writes:I have always had a fairly high sex drive even in high school but the past year my sex drive keeps getting higher. It's to the point where I actually can't do daily things. My bf and I have an amazing sex life but he said that he physically can't keep up with my needs. We have sex every single day. For the past six months or more I have been masterbating daily, some days I have down it up to 10 times. I have no idea what is going on. I feel horrible, my girl parts are sore but even with the pain it's like I need to feel that sensation of getting off. I don't know what to do please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2016): You are going to make your boyfriend feel inadequate. And this will hurt his ego. He will feel like he can never satisfy you. That nothing he does is good enough. Or enough. Is that what you want? To hit him right where he lives? Men LIVE to sexually satisfy their woman. I think you have to take his needs into account for a change. It is hard on a guy to have to perform all the time too, believe it or not. And to keep it up to that level is unrealistic. Do you ever think that if you do it too much, it will lose its lustre and mystique? Too much a good thing? Almost like a chore? Just sex for the act? Yes, all that can happen. This can take the very fun out of it. And eventually the willingness to do it and the enthusiasm will fade away. Your boyfriend will get tired of it. And he will no longer be into it because he is being forced to perform.Pull back a bit. The world will not end if you don't have sex 24-7. This is all in your mind. Something, a psychological need inside you, is driving you to have this much sex. Is it for validation? To feel powerful? To feel womanly? Do you suffer from lo
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (17 June 2016):
 Please speak to your doctor; it shouldn't take over your life this much.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 June 2016):
 Try birth control pills. A lot of them are known to kill sex drive. In your case, it might not kill it, just lower it to a level where your boyfriend can keep up, and where your lady parts don't get sore.
Remember that this is just your body speaking, it's a physical drive, not a mental one. It's not YOU as a person who are horny, it's your body. I mean, part of it at least. That's why when you alter your hormones through birth control pills, you might experience not feeling the same urge for sex.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 June 2016):
 If it is effecting your life then I would suggest going to see your doctor about this problem, he can refer you to someone who can get to the bottom off why you are doing this so much.
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