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writes:Ok me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years and and we just got married March 7th and I'm 6 months pregnant with a girl which he already has 2 boys, but I cheated on him once around the same time I got pregnant but that guy said he didn't go in me, I know this sounds bad but I don't know what to do and was wanting to know if you all could give me some advice on what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Yos  +, writes (18 March 2007):
 You need to find a medical center that can do DNA tests. They'll tell you what you need. It'll will be something that has his dna, a hair is probably the easiest, or saliva (spit). They can advise you.
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reader, agony_uncle_r  +, writes (18 March 2007):
i suggest you show some human decency and let him kno exactly what type of woman hes stupidly signed his life over to.
youve commited the ultimate betrayal and are now potentially forcing him to raise the consiquences, yet you show no remorse or guilt at all.
tell him, let him know the truth and let him decide whether he wants to live with a lier n cheat
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for yalls advice but how could i get a dna test without him knowing
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reader, Yos +, writes (17 March 2007):
Bad situation!
I suggest you get a DNA / paternity test. You can do this without your husband knowing and find out if the baby is really his. I'm not sure if a testing company will insist that he knows, that really depends on the law where you are. They will be able to tell you.
Once you have done that you can decide what to do based on the results. If it is his then you may or may not want to tell him you were unfaithful. If it is not his, then you will have to tell him that.
I should warn you that there is no better way to torture a man than to tell him the child he thought was his is not. I very much hope for the both of you that the child is his.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2007): You might want to get one of those tests to see whose child it is and tell your husband what had happend if anything bad happens at least you won't feel guilty or any thing like that. now this might not help that much, but it might.
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