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writes: I've fallen in love with a girl I met this year at university. The problem is that she is a lesbian and is currently in a relationship. I thought that these feelings would pass but it's been months and I can't stop thinking about her. I'm not sure whether she is aware.I don't expect her to feel the same. I don't expect her to change. But she is a close friend and I feel like I should be honest and tell her how much she means to me. I'm just frightened that I'll scare her off. I just don't think I could bear to lose her friendship.
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reader, sibaan +, writes (14 June 2006):
 follow your heart. most lesbians are either bi or wouldnt mind being bi.
tryyour luck, who knows maybe she will tell you that she wants you aswell
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 June 2006):
 dear reader the funny thing is i don't think you will scare her off if you tell her. i think that lesbian's feel quite flattered when a man says they have feelings. although this don't help you it may get it all off your chest but as you say she is in a relationship you don't want to ruin what they have together. i've heard a lot of stories where a guy and a lesbian are the best of friends but the guy is in love with her this can work and eventually you will come to terms with the fact that its just somethign you can't have. i am also thinking that its just one of the forbidden fruit things you knwo you can't have it and yes she may-be lovely but are you 100% sure you are actually in love with her and not just the idea of her? you need to think about this then i think you should talk to her i think she will understand.
all the best to you and if you need anything else you can contact me direct
good luck xxx
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