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writes: Nice to run into your site. Got issues. Ending and on again off again relationship. The first post divorce. We love each other immensely. I have issues with trust. Thought I got over it all post divorce and husband having affair. Though appears not. This new guy who I have been seing for a little over two years hit it off pretty good. Sailing along for a while talking every day and seeing much of each other. Run into a little bump in the road. He has an ex girfriend who he financially supported and who has still quietly been pursuing him. She is overseas now though when I found out about her it has been an ongoing source of discomfort, incredible insecurity for me. He stated he has been helping out a friend. We are just friends he would say. He constantly professed his love for me. She would call when I was over there and mention how her son misses him (from another man, though my guy loves him like his own.)Anyway long story kinda short... I found out in November she was living at his home for a month and he was hiding it from me. She was here to take care of business. His suggestion, he paid for her way...He says nothing sexual... yet I have become a very very insecure, jealous, incredible ugly mess. We are still lingering. She has gone back home but plans to move back here. He says he won't be contacting her... I need help for myself and how to heal and what your opinions are. I have become so suspicious of him and question everything... Definately still hurting.
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reader, pleasure_pain +, writes (7 February 2006):
I would say to get rid of that loser,you will never be able to trust him and that wears you down
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