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Why won't the guy I've been speaking to online for five years meet me?

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Question - (6 February 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2006)
A female , *rincessnai writes:

i met this guy from the internet, we started talking and 1 year of talking became 5 years of talking. i really wanted to meet up with him just so i could spend time with him in person. when i asked him why he didnt want to meet, he said it was because i have alot of trust issues and the fact that im a virgin is one of those issues. hes obviously not a virgin, but is he not capable of spending time with me without having sex, especially after so much time? is that really the reason why?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2006):

I agree this guy's got something to hide. It's very likely that he is uncomfortable with how he looks and does not want to be seen.

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2006):

shania agony auntMy guess is, he is married or is living with someone.I would of thought after 5 years he would want to meet you by now.He definately has something to hide,and this excuse of you been a virgin is total rubbish...Its up to you ,but personally i would stop contacting him if you want a relationship with him...because he cannot offer you that.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2006):

Are you sure he is single?!

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A male reader, ourchosenpaths +, writes (7 February 2006):

ourchosenpaths agony auntHe might not be the same person you think he is. If he is having internet romances, chances are he isn't too competent in bed. He's probably just embarassed or hiding something.

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