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writes:i have a straight friend who has a girlfriend but every time i visit him at home when his girlfriend is out i tend to talk male sex and i feel that i'm curously attracted to him and would like to kiss him but he's not interested. help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2007): There's absoloutly NOTHING you can do.
Walk away, mate!
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reader, Dave2007 +, writes (29 April 2007):
I agree with the others, sadly he's not interested in you. It's best if you don't talk about sexual things because it's obviously making things worse.
Just as an additional point, you do get 'straight' guys who have gaydar and can tell another guy is interested in them and actually get turned on by the fact that you fancy them. It's an ego thing and it's pretty cruel. I can't tell if he is one of these guys - but he sounds like it, otherwise he wouldn't keep talking about sex with you (unless he has no idea about you). In addition, they can do stuff like flirt with you, take their clothes off in front of you (seemingly innocently) and even touch you - but as I said, it's all about getting turned on by the idea of you fancing them but having no intention of reciprocating it. Just try and keep things very above board and don't get too caught up with it!
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reader, beautifulllove  +, writes (29 April 2007):
 that might end badly he might not be your friend any more or worse smack and im not trien to be funny, just accept things as they are hes not gay and doesnt like you so i really think theres no chance but if theres something still there you may try talking to him about how you feel. good luck xoxo
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reader, cd206 +, writes (29 April 2007):
 It's a case of unrequited love. He's not interested, you are. This might sound harsh but you only have one option and that's to accept it and get over it.
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