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writes:Would you contact an ex boyfriend who you have not spoke to in 3 years to set the record straight? The thing is that he thinks that i cheated on him when i didnt. I broke up with him because he was very controlling and abusive. Regardless of what he did to me i have always wanted to confront him of how he made me feel, what he had done to me and how better off i am now. Any advice?
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reader, maverick +, writes (29 April 2007):
 If this has happened 3 years ago but you are still considering it now - you should seriously consider why is it still bothering you?
You might benefit from confronting him and may be able to achieve closure? Or you may want to sub-counciously reconcile with him? Or you might want to give him a piece of your mind to hurt him as much as he has hurt you? Or just forget it and move on?
In any case - know exactly why you want to contac him 3 years later. Then think about what next step will help you.
Personally I would let go and try to move on.
Please be careful. M
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reader, TLilly08  +, writes (29 April 2007):
I say don't waste your time. If he was abusive and hurt you during your relationship, then you don't owe him a thing. You not contacting him over three years is the bigger statement.
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reader, beautifulllove +, writes (29 April 2007):
 i say go for it more power to you just long as you do not put your self in that situation again than you didnt better your self just making things worse but if you got the will and the way i say give him a call and a piece of your mind much luck
xoxo
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