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I'm bisexual, but should I wait until I've been with another girl before Im really open about it ?

Q.   Hi, I really need help. For the past 3 years or so, I've known I was bisexual. About a month ago I came out to my friends. At first they were a bit suprised but accepted me for it and they sort of joke about it but they mean well. But the problem is ...

A.   29 April 2007: You are definately too young to make a choice about your sexuality in any capacity. It's perfectly normal and natural for teenagers to have bisexual tendancies, your sexuality is still forming (just as you are). Don't pigeon hole yourself by ... (read in full...)

We are the best of friends and I want to be more, (I'm male) but why does he shut me out sometimes?

Q.   I have a friend who I've known since last July, but we really started hanging out a lot since the end of October. I always found him cute but just that, and I didn't think he was gay because he is very sports oriented. But as we started to really ...

A.   29 April 2007: I agree with all the answers given here. I was in exactly the same situation myself with my best friend when I was in my early twenties and it began becoming ever more apparent that he had feelings for me and fancied me, sadly he was in a ... (read in full...)

Can asexuals have successful romantic relationships with sexuals?

Q.   Can asexuals have successful romantic relationships with sexuals? Hi, I’m a 25 year old guy, still a virgin, and asexual. I was just wondering can asexuals have successful romantic relationships with sexuals? If they can, can you give some exampl...

A.   29 April 2007: Hi, I found your question really interesting. I feel there is a simplistic answer to this but because I am not asexual myself am not sure if it is the right one. From my point of view, wouldn't just finding a really good female friend be just as ... (read in full...)

I have a straight friend who has a girlfriend but I'm curiously attracted to him but he's not interested. Help!!!!

Q.   i have a straight friend who has a girlfriend but every time i visit him at home when his girlfriend is out i tend to talk male sex and i feel that i'm curously attracted to him and would like to kiss him but he's not interested. help! ...

A.   29 April 2007: I agree with the others, sadly he's not interested in you. It's best if you don't talk about sexual things because it's obviously making things worse. Just as an additional point, you do get 'straight' guys who have gaydar and can tell another ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex with him?

Q.   hi im julia im 14 from uk. i have not been sexually active in a term i can relate to (if that makes sense) when i was 13 i was abused and raped and left naked in my own bedroom while my parents had nipped over the road to see a friend, i said i w...

A.   29 April 2007: Hi Julia, I saw your question and I wasn't sure whether to reply - but because you said ASAP I thought I would try and help. I am going to start by saying that I will speak to you frankly as you seem like a very mature girl and you have clearly ... (read in full...)

I feel that I like both men and women. How do I handle this?

Q.   I have recently discovered that I am bisexual and have lately been having an urge to perform oral sex on other men. I know for a fact that none of my male friends are gay or bisexual and I don't know how to handle these desires, what should I do?...

A.   29 April 2007: OK, Here is my first major piece of advice:- DO NOT GO TO GAR BARS OR JOIN GAY WEBSITES AND CHAT ROOMS! I will explain why. It is just too easy to get sex (of any kind) with other men and if you enter into these fields you will be taken of... (read in full...)

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