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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm totally crushing on this guy in my class. We're friends and I'm not a shy person, but around him I am. He's not a shy guy either, but around me, he used to never make eye contact.(My friend spoke to him and said he acts normal. But when she saw the two of us talking, she would notice he would not look me in the eye). We were about to take an exam today (random seating) and he sat next to me... and I got up to go to another seat! I just couldn't handle sitting next to him during the exam. The thing is, I think he has a little crush on me too. We have a mutual friend and the mutual friend used to try to 'make things happen between us.' But it didn't work (at least on my side)- I felt really awkward and I denied that I liked him (well.. I never admitted anything). And crush would tell the mutual friend to stop. This one time, Crush did ask me out in front of our mutual friend.. but I thought it was a joke. Crush just said: "Yeah, let's go out for dinner.' and I just laughed. (That happened a while ago). Then it feels like the whole world is trying to set us up... Another friend of ours thought we would make a cute couple and went up to both of us to try to get something started. Again, he pretended like he didn't hear anything and I just asked her why she would think that. But anyway, I always catch my crush looking at me. When we do talk, he is always so sweet. He opens the door for me like a gentleman. When he sees me on the computers, he comes up to me and talks (then he pretends to do something on the computer.. but he just opens and closes a website.. it is so cute). I don't know what to do. I don't want to start anything with anyone in my class (since I will see them for the next four years... everyday) but I can't stop thinking about him. I want to get to know him, but I'm nervous around him. Help!
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reader, goodguy11 +, writes (19 February 2010):
I think if you like him he would rather hear it from you than hearing it from your mutual friend. So flirt with him and study together more. And when the moment is right whenever that may be go for it. Ask him if that dinner offer is still on the table.
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reader, angel of love  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Honestly, I think you should just go for it. A lot of people walk this world searching for someone that they can connect with or feel even the littlest spark with. If you have that you shouldn't worry about the "what ifs" or "could happens". I lost out on being with a really amazing guy because I was too shy to do anything about it. I really don't want to see that happen to you. So just take the chance...you'll never know what you're missing out on if you never try. Just follow your heart and you can never go wrong.
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