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Well first of all the one thing that qualifies me to help people is that I've either been through the situation or helped a friend to get through it.....I live on Guam and there are a lot of drama here...nothing really maks me tick...i guess... And my relationship status is independent and enjoying it...but don't get me wrong i know what I'm talking about....i've been through so many relationships in the past 5yrs...i've delt with the guys that act badass,the guys that think they kno evrything, the guys that want to be the boss of everything, and of course the guys that think they are so in love that they make you make all the decisions if you kno wat i mean..bascially i'm a love expert...i can hook you up or break you up..your choice....

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7 October 2007: Listen up everyone!!! I need you all to know this...Every single one of you people out there...BOYS, GIRLS, STRAIGHT, GAY, LESBIANS, BISEXUALS, AND TRANSGENDERS...You all deserve the best of the best...you deserve someone that will love, respect, ...

I have a huge crush but I'm just too nervous when I'm around him. Help!

Q.   I'm totally crushing on this guy in my class. We're friends and I'm not a shy person, but around him I am. He's not a shy guy either, but around me, he used to never make eye contact.(My friend spoke to him and said he acts normal. But when she saw ...

A.   19 February 2010: Honestly, I think you should just go for it. A lot of people walk this world searching for someone that they can connect with or feel even the littlest spark with. If you have that you shouldn't worry about the "what ifs" or "could happens". I lost ... (read in full...)

Is it true LDRs never last?

Q.   Is what they say about long distance relationships true? That they never last? I ask this because I really like this guy. He's sweet and caring and very romantic. We are good together. The only problem is that he's in the military and stationed ...

A.   10 September 2008: Thank you all so much! I really appreciate your advice and will take it into concideration when making my desicion. You've all been a huge help...Thanks.... (read in full...)

I don't know if I should wait for him or move on when he goes to the air force...

Q.   Ok so here is the dilema: I have been recently talkin 2 a guy and we haven't made anything official but i know were headed there. Earlier on he had mentioned goin 2 the air force and we discussed that if things got serious with us then we will fin...

A.   29 August 2008: Here's the truth from my heart...I've been through a relationship with a military guy. You need to see it through his point of view. He's going to start his life and experience new adventures. He's trying to tell you the truth of matter...he may ... (read in full...)

It's been 2 years since I've broke up with my last boyfriend, I feel awfully lonely and crave for good company, any suggestions?

Q.   Hi, I'm looking for advice from those who ahve perhaps gone through soemthign similar as I have...basically I feel depressed because I feel I can't find a boyfriend. I even signed up for match.com, but have been disappointed with the service. I ...

A.   29 August 2008: I'm kind of riding that same boat. I've been single for a while and I felt sad because I didn't have the comfort I did when I was dating someone. The feeling is strong and it feels like it can't go away without a boy by your side. You and I both ... (read in full...)

Am I being spiteful by wanting more of his attention, or am I right by saying I'm coming second best?

Q.   Lately, i've noticed that my boyfriend is more interested in ebay. He's always been interested in selling and has a good eye for a bargain and has his own business in selling things! But recently, whenever i go round his house or he comes round mi...

A.   29 August 2008: I to have been in that type of predicament. I was dating this guy DAN and at first I was his number one. The most important thing in his life. He seemed like the perfect boyfriend. But out of no where he started being distant. When I'd go over to ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend treats me really bad... will he change someday?

Q.   Hi, I apologize if this is long but it wil help u understand, I think neway. He has ben my boyfriend 4 almost 2yrs now. There have been sum issues but it seems 2 b getin worse. Here is sum backgrnd info on him tht mite help. ill try 2make this s...

A.   29 August 2008: I hate to tell you this, but it's going to take a lot for him to change his ways. Seeing from his background he grew up with violence. If his dad was displeased with his mother he'd hit him. So in his mind if you displease him his instinct is to hit ... (read in full...)

I just need help getting over my feelings for my best friend's girl.

Q.   A while back my best friend introduced me to his girlfriend. We instantly hit it off, and we've become close friends. But recently i've started to like her a hell of a lot as more than a friend. I would never betray my friend. Both their frie...

A.   26 June 2008: I haven't been answering a lot of questions lately but your question just jumped out at me. I was in the same situation as well except I was the girl. My boyfriend introduced me to his homeboi and we totally hit it off. I found myself talking to him ... (read in full...)

I miss him so much, but I can't find the courage to tell him!

Q.   Me and my ex are still friends, broken up for a while, he has a girlfriend (His ex) who has flirted with his best friend (As in would drop my ex in a second if his friend asked her out) I'm friends (With benefits) with my ex's ex best friend (the ...

A.   15 May 2008: WOW GIRL...you have a tough one on your hands...I know how you feel about the whole loving your ex-bf ordeal...I've been there and done that. The point is that you shouldn't move back. Take a deep breath and take a step forward. He's with the girl ... (read in full...)

I miss him so much, but I can't find the courage to tell him!

Q.   Me and my ex are still friends, broken up for a while, he has a girlfriend (His ex) who has flirted with his best friend (As in would drop my ex in a second if his friend asked her out) I'm friends (With benefits) with my ex's ex best friend (the ...

A.   15 May 2008: WOW GIRL...you have a tough one on your hands...I know how you feel about the whole loving your ex-bf ordeal...I've been there and done that. The point is that you shouldn't move back. Take a deep breath and take a step forward. He's with the girl ... (read in full...)

What should I do to let her know I want to be with her, even though she's still in a relationship?

Q.   okay, i'm 16 and there's this girl that i really, really like alot. At the moment she's in a relationship, but i can't really see it going anywhere because she's constantly being broken hearted by this guy, being let down by him and lately it's ...

A.   15 May 2008: I know what you mean about not being so good at the whole dating thing...I have a friend who hasn't had a relationship before...now she does and she's trying to get used to it...I'll just give you a few words of wisdom that was passed on to me from ... (read in full...)

What should I do to let her know I want to be with her, even though she's still in a relationship?

Q.   okay, i'm 16 and there's this girl that i really, really like alot. At the moment she's in a relationship, but i can't really see it going anywhere because she's constantly being broken hearted by this guy, being let down by him and lately it's ...

A.   15 May 2008: Look...you sound like a really sweet guy! And if you are as close to each other as you say you are then she probably already knows about how you feel. What she needs now is for you to tell her how you feel. Sit her down and tell her exactly what is ... (read in full...)

Does her eating disorder have anything to do with her lack of response to fingering?

Q.   ok so i've asked this before but it's a little different i think now.. ok well tonight i went down on my gf for the the like second time and she got off to it.. but um fingering her she says still gets her no where and she even said it kinda made ...

A.   15 May 2008: Okay...not exactly the question I usually encounter but none the less I'll give you my point of view. My ex-bf had sort of the same issue with his gf...he says that technically that "g-spot" is where a girl pees from. So it's logical that it makes ... (read in full...)

Why did she make so much effort in the club when we met...what do you think she is thinking??

Q.   I broke up with my ex girlfriend four months ago. She got to uni and wanted freedom. I was putting her under pressure and made her feel smothered. By the end, I was insecure and paranoid. I don't blame her for breaking up with me. Since we split, I...

A.   12 March 2008: well first of all take a step back take a deep breath and relax....girls have a tendency to be confusing and unpridictable. it's possible that she just wanted to be nice and spend some time with you so that you don't think that there's bad water ... (read in full...)

My ex is trying to break us up. What shall I do?

Q.   hiya my names Joanne, I was with my boyfriend for about 10 months it was a close relationship, but then it came to an end and he finished me for going out with my friend joade cos he didnt like me going out, 2 months later he had got a new g...

A.   12 November 2007: well just tell your ex-boyfriend strate out...tell him that you care about your boyfriend and that he has nothing to do with why you are dating him...tell him how you truely feel and tell him to back the hell off...your boyfriend didn't say anything ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to date a younger guy?

Q.   I like this guy for long time. We have been friends for almost 4 years and i seem to have not lost interest in him. I have tried so hard to stop liking him because he is a year younger than me but it's really hard. I even dated other guys to try ...

A.   12 November 2007: thanks for all of that....i'll try my best and figure this out...i'll take what you say into consideration...luffs much...... (read in full...)

I'm happy with him, but he's afraid he'll hurt me.

Q.   Ok, wow! I don't really know where to begin! I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months. I love him so much and my feelings for him have not changed in the past year and 8 months. I always think about our future together and am so ...

A.   3 November 2007: in my opinion girl to girl....he like most men are just really scared to commit...what am i saying...i'm scared to commit as well...i have been in so many relationships that were great at first but at the first mention of marriage or living together ... (read in full...)

My ex is getting engaged and I don't know what to do?

Q.   I dated my first love off and on for five years. After finding out that he had been lying to me and hanging out with this girl I flipped out and we broke up. He told me that he wasn't ready to settle down yet and that he needed five years to do ...

A.   3 November 2007: i kinda been there and done that...your first love as all say is the hardest to die...but i say that if you have the chance at love everlasting with your first love you shouldnt give it up! you should do all you can until you can't anymore...as long ... (read in full...)

Does he fancy my best friend, does he fancy me - or both of us?

Q.   i am 11 years old and this boy used to fancy me untill i said i didnt fancy him and now he fancies my best friend-but the thing is-he still comes to me and my best friend and annoys us.sometimes he even follows us around.in most classes,i sit next ...

A.   3 November 2007: well in my opinion he fancies you...but since you rejected him he went for the next best thing...your bestfriend...every boy knows that if the girl you like turns you down hit on her bestfriend and make her jealous...it works 2 out of three ... (read in full...)

He wants to take things slow.

Q.   I have finally met a great guy, he is friends with my 2 best girlfriends and I think he might be someone I can have a serious relationship with. He is just getting over a broken heart and wants to take things slow which I can completly understand. I ...

A.   3 November 2007: if your friends are okay with it to your face and not behind your back then it most likely that they feel as if they are losing you to your boyfriend...a lot of friends don't like it when you give a lot of the attention on your boyfriend and less on ... (read in full...)

I played matchmaker but now it's all gone wrong. What should I do?

Q.   I'll start at the beginning.... My friend (Becca) had an intense crush on a guy (Ryan)beginning last October. She's incredibly shy, so I decided I'd help. I arranged a time for them to meet. The more these occured the more Ryan and I talked. ...

A.   19 October 2007: Well what you need to do is sit them down together and talk it through...you all need to put all the cards on the table and figure things out...the longer you put this off the more you are going to beat at yourself wondering what's going on...you ... (read in full...)

She's told her friends that I don't talk to her as if I like her. What does she mean?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have just now started dating, which came out of just us having crushes on each other for about a month or two. She's told her friends that I don't really talk to her like I like her, but I really don't understand what she means. ...

A.   16 October 2007: well honestly i have been in a situation like that myself...she feels that you talk to her like one of your friends...you need to be more boyfriendish...more romantic...a tad more into what she has to say...just talk as if you actually have the ... (read in full...)

Should I stay if he won't be here for us?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for 2and 1/2 years, we have been living together for over a year. We are both 22, and he keeps getting mad at me for alot of things, we try to talk but we fight. Its like if its not his way or his thing then hes mad or ...

A.   7 October 2007: honestly i don't think that it should be such a quik desicion...you should try to sit him down and talk to him about how you feel and see what's his side of the story...if he doesn't respond then you have no choice but to leave...you should be with ... (read in full...)

I have low self esteem and I'm afraid to ask girls out

Q.   I am rather shy, and I have very poor confidence in myself. I'm the tall,skinny,quiet kid who is good in school, I'm sure you know the type. I'm afraid of asking girls out, and what they would think of me if I did, although I have no problem talking ...

A.   16 July 2007: honestly you should give it a try..you'll never know what could happen...girls are just as nerves as guys are to ask someone to go out with them...but i once heard this saying that nothing ventured is nothing gained...sure the first few trys may be ... (read in full...)

He broke up with me saying he wants to experiment sexually but he had said he wanted to be with only me

Q.   In a month me and my boyfriend would have been coming up on our two year anniversary. I found out he was lying to me about basic things, so I got friends involved and they did a little intervention. He admitted to them that he has thought about ...

A.   16 July 2007: well to sleep with only one person for your whole life happens only in movies...people need choices and they need to know if what they have is real...he may want to spend the rest of his life with you but he needs the proof that he only wants ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is suspicious of me for no good reason

Q.   I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. we always have disagreements because if he's stressed or had a bad day he gets really supicious. I don't know if this is because of his depression or his personality. he knows i'm not the type of girl...

A.   16 July 2007: well honestly there isnt much to do...he's either really sensitive at the moment or he is second guessing himself...he probably knows that you are really speacial and important that he doesn't want anything to mess up his alone time with you...even ... (read in full...)

What is the best way to console him about this boy?

Q.   My husband and I have "looked after" R since he left an unhappy home when he was 16. He is now nearly 38 and we have known that he is gay sice he was 20. He has been in several "relationships" all of which have failed to be sustainable. He is an ...

A.   26 March 2007: you should tell him that he needs to move on with his life...he doesn't deserve a guy like that...its good to care about that person but do it as a friend... i myself have a bestfriend forever...and he is also gay...he had rough relationships and i ... (read in full...)

My friend was sexually abused by her uncle and I don't know what advice to give her, please help me?

Q.   A friend of mine has been sexually molested and she doesn't know what to do... She is afraid that it might wreck her family since it was her uncle that did it... please help me... I dont know what I should tell her...?...

A.   18 March 2007: thank you for the help...i really appreciate it...i hope me and my friend can get through this...till next time...amber... (read in full...)

Got drunk and kissed mymates ex...what do I do??

Q.   I'm a horrible horrible person. I got drunk one night and kissed my best friends ex boyfriend. Nothing else really happened but even though she broke it off with him she is still really cut up about it. They went out for 5 years. He wants to keep it ...

A.   16 March 2007: honestly i think that you should tell her... she deserves to know the truth about what happened...she may be hurt but if you dont tell her it may come out in another way and it will hurt her even more if it doesnt come from you...... (read in full...)

What do I get him for our first xmas together?

Q.   im 15 and my boyrfriend is 18. We have been dating for almost 6 months and this is our first Christmas together. and I have no idea what I should get him. but I want something to give him that he will always remember me by and he'll love it no ...

A.   19 December 2006: well basically you should get him what he has always wanted...ask someone to ask him what he would expect from you for christmas and get it for him..dont make it too obvious though because it wont work....good luck and god speed...... ... (read in full...)

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