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26-29,
anonymous
writes:i was going out with this guy for what would have been a year on the 27 of this month. we always had a good time together and we both really thought we were going to make it through high school and we had so many plans together. we were best friends first and than he asked me out. everyone thought we were perfect together and so did i. i trusted him with everything and he helped me get through times i thought i never could. well this september high school came and we go to different ones, we knew it was going to be hard but it was actually pretty good.i mean we still saw each other during the week and everything. well to make the long story short he broke up with me 3 weeks ago before valentines day and our 1 year aniversery no less. he broke my heart more than once and each time he begged me to take him back saying that he will never ever hurt me again and promising me things....he always kept his promises so i believed him and took him back all three times...the 4th time that he broke my heart he didnt beg me to take him back and i was so hurt i wanted him back but at the same time i didnt. im trying so hard to move on and stay strong but everything reminds me of him and idk how to just be happy. i mean its one thing to love someone but to be completely in love with them is a whole different thing. when he dropped off my stuff he said we should go back to being best friends like old times and that i should text him when i was ready to talk to him, when i did he never texted back except for one time when i heard he was talking about me and i told him to stop. he also said he knows we'll be together in the future but that hurt me more cause than im just gonna keep hanging on but i gotta stop. does anyone have any advice for me? im really trying to stop aching like this but i just dont know what to doo....
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionomg thankyou so much. that made me so happy to here thanks a bunch!!!!
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