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anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I have a massive crush on my coach for a specific sport and I'm wondering if he likes me back or if it is all in my head?I just started a few weeks ago and I've learned his name and a bit about him, what school he went to, how old he is (sort of), his friends and I've done some serious stalking and found his Facebook and Instagram (I know! I'm totally obsessed!)But a few weeks ago, I complimented him on his smile (he has the most gorgeous smile you would ever see) and he grinned back at me and thanked me. Recently I have noticed him smiling much more often. He is the most kind person when I was in the gym, he offered to help me out. Though he is at least 3 years older then me, I somehow feel like I have a chance with him? His friends are cute but not as much as him, he always tells me how good I am doing at my sport, but I don't think he knows my name...Please help! I literally cannot stop thinking about him! He overtakes my thoughts 24/7.Thank you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 May 2016):
 Going by your age bracket and him being three years older I doubt that he would see you as anything more than a student who plays on his sports team. He is older than you and he is in a position to guide you and he should never pass that line. If he did well then no doubt he would lose his job as coach and also respect from everyone. Sweetie it is a crush and it is hard, but you will get over it and you will look back and laugh when you are older. I know for now it is very real. But it will pass. You need to remember he is off limits. This might help your crush fade.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2016): It's not uncommon to have a crush at an authority figure, but that's just what it is a crush, meaning that is one-sided.
If he's really that great he would never -NEVER- get involved with a student.
Sorry.
If he however would, well then for sure he's not worth of you're respect let alone affection.
So there you have it. Enjoy the crush and don't act on it. It'll pass.
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