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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Wow Im surprised myself how much i love this guy(2 years older). We were friends for 4 years until yesterday when he told me(via the internet) that he had feelings for me and that he cant hide them anymore. I already have a boyfriend and he knows that but still he told me. I didnt know what to say so he suggested that i should think about it..but since that day, he has been quiet not talking to me nor answering ma texts and calls. He cant even look at me. Im so worried about him right now..he doesnt know yet how much i love him. Help
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reader, nat1972  +, writes (16 September 2012):
 If your feelings for the internet guy are real which to me kind of says that they are. Knowing him for 4 years and he has come out and told you that he loves you is very special. What is important here is the guy you are going out with. If your feelings of love are not reciprocated with the relationship you have now then you must end it. When it comes to relationships you have to be honest with each other and I know you are young so if you are thinking of leaving the boyfriend do it gently but firmly. Now, the guy on the internet, He is probably feeling embarrassed that he told you on the internet. And trying to keep away as he is hurting that he cannot be with you at the moment. Best advice I can give is keep talking to him, don't pressure him, be as you are. But you need to make a decision on who you want. Id also say if you are confused keep it as it is. But don't deny your feelings here. You are now in a tricky situation loving 2 guys. Know your own feelings first then go from there. Be honest, stay true to who you are, and don't be infatuated because another guy likes you. If you are happy with the boyfriend why change.
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